I assume you are asking for eroge simulators with some degree of character customisation, but with an anime-style of model vs a more realistic style. Older titles may have issues with Windows 10.
Illusion =
Koikatu! (2018) (very highly recommended)
HaremMate (2014)
Artificial Academy 2 (2014) (very highly recommended)
Artificial Academy (2011)
Artificial Girl 3 (2007) (ageing, but highly recommended)
(EDIT) = 3D Emotion Creators to be released on April 26.
KISS =
Custom Maid 3D2 (2015) (highly recommended)
Custom Maid 3D (2011)
Purple Heart =
Polygon Love 2 (2006) (massive clothes modding community)
Bullet =
3D Custom Girl Evolution (2013)