Change ONE decision in your life....

If you could change one thing in your past love life what would it be?

I had an experience back when I was, as I like to call it, extremely stoopid and I had it going really well with one girl, but I didn't tell her everything about MY past, and well I didnt really care.... at all, I just got "what I wanted" and that was it, so when she found out, I didnt know, and the day I decided to tell her that I really loved her, she found out, because "my past" came back to bite me right in the ass... and let me tell you, that is not a good feeling.... the past sucks....

So thats what I would like to change... the fact that I was extremely stoopid, and didn't tell her everything....

Soooo... does anyone have something they'd like to change about their past love-life as well?

I wish I confessed to my best friend back in 8th grade. I knew she liked me, and I liked her as well, but we both were too conscientious about ruining our relationship if the other had rejected the confession. That had an adverse affect, and eventually we stopped or rarely ever talk to each other anymore. I still feel terrible because I went through highschool dating girls who I never fully committed my heart to, and she ended up with an asshole boyfriend that pressured her into sex(that really killed me). I try to live life without regrets, but that one span of time keeps haunting me, as I will always reserve a spot in my heart for her, and her life has spiraled down since we drifted apart my freshman year.


It kinda bites me in the ass with my other relationships, cause I never fully commit my heart to them.

That happenned to me too, except that the asshole she ended up with made her steal cars and she ended up getting caught and I think she is still serving time in jail.... I don't think I'll ever stop thinking "what if".....

Plus I might have a kid... but she never talks to me... I try, but she never does... I hurt her badly and thats something I will NEVER get over.... being that she was the first person I ever confessed to... Or really loved for that matter....

Every weekend I go to my favorite local gaming store, oh wait this is about love and stuff, actually yeah there too, I totally wish I knew what I was feeling back when I was in Jr. High and it was Halloween, and there was this girl who I liked a lot as a friend, we both got shitty costumes, me because I'm poor her because she liked the Quasimodo Disney movie they had put out, and her parents decided to give her that costume the cheap-assed way, not sure if she was poor or not though, I assume so now. I would have more happy memories of Jr. High at least.

Please note that I'm a bit of a romantic, and so I value happy memories a lot, since they are so few and far in between I try to make every moment I can enjoyable so I will remember parts of my life fondly. I could have had more happy memories with her but I blew it and now I'm almost regretting it, but I've also learned not to regret my past, but to learn from it.

Yeah, I sure as hell learned something from that, don't ever take anyone in vain.... cuz like I said it WILL come back to haunt you later....

I have many happy memories with her as well though, we went to six flags, we had fun in many different places.. and we used to joke around alot, so I do think I have more happy memories than sad ones....

But still..... the whole kid thing has been tearing at me for quite a while now....

Wait, so, she has kid, it might be yours or what?

Yeah, it just might be, but she wont talk to me... As I said I met her when I was extremely stupid...

falling in love with my current gf is probably the biggest mistake i've done in my life,although i'm happy i made that mistake. :)

yeah.... love can suck SOMETIMES.......

dude, im really happy for you.. lol

we had the same experience with different results.. hahahaha!!!

i guess the difference was there was love in yours and lust in mine eh?

i deeply regret it now since i just met for the first time ever a woman i really like.. lol...

Mines started as 100% lust, and ended up with love, but meh..... oh well...... heh... love really CAN blow sometimes....

There was a girl back in highschool that I really liked. I ended up breaking up with my gf at the time and waited about a week or so to confess to this girl. When I finally did, she got really embarrassed and didn't know what to do since it had never happened to her before. She didn't talk to me for like a week or so, she would just kinda run away from me. So I felt really stupid and was totally miserable.

Mistake 1: I went back to the girl I had been dating prior because I didn't know what to do.

She came back a couple days after i had gone back to my previous gf and told me that she was just embarrassed and didn't know what to do.

My second mistake came last summer ('07) when I went to hang out with her for a day. We hadn't seen each other for years, even though we were in constant contact via e-mail, phone, etc. I had a gf at the time (naturally) whom i did not tell about hanging out with this girl, because she knew all about her. At any rate, my friend invited me to stay the night and we could just chill and hang out and she could give me a ride home in the morning.

Mistake 2: I insisted on just catching the bus home and not spending the night (i thought i was being courteous)...

So here I am, 4 some odd years after it all began, still in love and still regretting the same stupid mistakes. I've since given up dating. We're still good friends, but now we may never be more.

I know that was 2 but hell, they're the only ones I really have.

that sucks clock, that was like me, except the mistake was that I didnt notice I loved her until I'd already told her we were just fuck buddies, so she never probably took it seriously... and there was also the chick that came back to bite me on the ass..... but meh, those were good times, I still haven't complettely gotten over her, even though there have been other girls, but I cant look at them like I looked at her, sincre I never have stayed with a girl for more than 2 months, and I was with that ONE girl for over a year, so I grew attached, and fell in love...... *sigh* damn.....