As A Female, Eshi Personally Rather Hands On Low Back Or Back Of The Neck... First Date, Never Tongue. Axially... Eshi Rather Ask For Tongue Never Given. Sew, Tongue Beh Complete Turn Off For Eshi If Attempted.
Donna, Really Hands work on the girl -Personally. You can never beh sure, buh the back (lower or upper) usually does a guy good. Mostly the silhouette of the body (lower) does a sensual attempt without the "I Really Want To Get Into Those Panies, Badly!" signal to charge through her mind. She'll think you sweet, tender, gentle with her. "Sensual" better than "Sexual" -Always!
This ish Eshi PERSONAL invite on touches, nuh sure on other females -Nuh much female when comes to dating et/or sex. Although, some reactions vary nevertheless.
Back Neck = Passionate, "I Want You"
et all depending on how you grip or touch varies your intent or her reaction to the kiss et/or grasp of the back of her neck. If you grab tightly into your lips "tightly" held, may come across more powerful than the girl would rather. If you grasp "tenderly" holding her at a distance, too much could come across as an invite to get to know you or a misconception of "this ish just one night" -or more negative distance, non wishing to get to know her or like of her.
Just beh careful on EVERY mark you make on any way you hold/kiss her, something SPECIFIC "may" matter to the female. Although, once again depends on the female. You can better know how by the first date (more learn over dates, getting to know who she ish -if you really want those panties! get to know what she likes! et/or who she ish)
Upper Back = Tender, "I'll Hold You"
Once More, All depending how you come across her with distance, grasp.. Your nature towards the kiss et holding her comes across your intent towards the kiss. Aswell, also non means for the comfort of the female, the man has his means of kissing the female in they way he knows best et/or feels more natural about. Females like it better if you feel comfortable about a kiss rather than trying to work her. SHE'S NON A MACHINE! She's a beautiful warmth flesh, beyond her body, with emotions et thoughts. Nuh just a drive!
Lower Back = Gently, "I Love You"
Always felt this was better because more loving. Lower back holding the silhouette of your body to him or near him. The pressure of the pelvic ish a turn off.. buh BEWARE if you have naughty thoughts she'll feel them in your pants! Had that happen before. MEH! Personally, don't mind a little nudge against meh, little amusement/turn on. BUH! Most girls don't usual like it. Just, most guys naturally like a females body near, et naturally things happen -non matter the age (more when younger; ages range from 15-25, nevertheless you are still a sex fiend).
Anyways, this just Eshi point of view on kisses et/or hands placement. Sew, don't bitch if something horrible goes wrong with a date because of a Ecchi Female that has more male friends than female friends. Heh! Eshi, also use to boost her guy friends on dates... et usually, never failed them. The girls who OBVIOUSLY don't like being touched, although, don't attempt hand placement! She'll literally just push you away, maybe non a second date at an extreme. Buh! beware she still wants a kiss (all depending) -nevertheless.
GAWH! That was LONG!