Help... (it's embarrassing...)

[font=Arial][color=darkblue]okay... this is kind of embarassing... maybe some other girls can help me out. I've been sexually active for about a year and a half. My problem is that during sex, i've never been able to climax. when I masturbate, the only way I can climax is by rubbing against one of my stuffed animals (its weird, I know, but it works...)I live with my parents so I don't have access to any kinds of real sex toys.

can anyone help?[/color][/font]

I'm a guy so I can't really help...but a plushie masturbation? Damn, that's hawt.

Also I'm wondering whether SD is really the place for this...

Since you are new I will just give you a piece of advice. Serious Discussion thread is for sharing and expressing views on today's issues and events. Since your topic is dealing with intimacy, I suggest you go to the Love, Romance, and Relationships thread. ^__^

Hohohoho, how I would love to help, but sadly I do not know where I can find you.

Jokes aside, ziggyotaku(girl user) would be the one who could most likely give you advice, but from what you have mentioned, it seems you have a stuffed animal fetish? Maybe you could try finding your G-spot.

Most of us are guys so don't mistake a cute girl avatar for a girl user.

I'm a guy, so there's only a few things I can help with.

Have you found your g-spot, or your sweet spot(s)? Women tend to climax better and faster when they stimulate their g-spots, which can range from the clit, the armpits, the mouth (kissing), nipples, tits, neck region, etc. etc.

Another thing I can suggest to further explore your sexuality and see if there's a fetish that you have but haven't really noticed. Maybe playing with dolls, a form of sex toys, could be your fetish. So maybe next you have sex, your boyfriend should use sex toys to help you climax. Or maybe you have a fetish for soft things rubbing against your parts - it's totally possible and understandable.

Perhaps your boyfriend(s) (if you've been or are in a relationship) have not been giving you enough attention, like cumming before you, or not even doing enough foreplay. If that's the case, then demand more. I'm sure the guy wouldn't mind pleasuring you unless he was a dick.

I could be pulling straws here, but I hope this helps.

edit: Rbz responded with the exact same thing except for my third point.

In short, download and read "Futari Ecchi", that manga really explains a lot from boys troubles to girls, it evens suggest some stuff that will make you/or your partner more exited and how to reach climax quickly.

:)

You forgot to provide the link to this thing. I would like to know where I can get this shit as well.

[font=Arial][color=darkblue]thanks.. does anyone know how to take this topic to another section? I need to move it to the Love and Relationship section.[/color][/font]

[font=Arial][color=darkblue]oh, and no, I don't have a plushie fetish... -////-;

also, I can't download stuff. this is my sister's computer.[/color][/font]

A mod will move this when the time comes.

So you just use the doll as a substitute dildo rubbing device?

[font=Arial][color=darkblue]I guess so. it's really the only way I can climax... >/////<[/color][/font]

+1 for g-money's answer. You have to experience where does it feel good, etc.. And you should talk with your bf about this issue. I mean.. if he just goes for his own needs, then you won't ever experience it.. :-/

You can Read here
http://www.findmanga.com/readmanga/Futari_Ecchi

or torrent it here
http://isohunt.com/torrent_details/93310617/Futari+Ecchi?tab=summary

That erotic manga, really helps broaden my knowledge.

No, you're lying. If you can only cum by using that then you must have the fetish...lol.

And in the case your boyfriend really doesn't give you enough attention, just smack him real good. Or dump him.

[font=Arial][color=darkblue]its not a fetish, it's just that's the only thing that's just the right softness/hardness that I can feel it but it won't hurt me.

And my bf wants to make me cum, and I got kinda close once, but we've only done it 4 times... (we both live at home and don't get out much, so its hard to get an opportunity to get together.)[/color][/font]

Has your boyfriend try to please you orally using his tongue? What I do is, insert my two fingers into the vagina trying to feel the upper part inside the vagina, tell him to stop when you feel the g-spot. Then, while fingering you ask him to lick your clitoris ( the tiny bump on you vagina) at the same time.

Since you like a hard stimulation outside more then inside.Ask your boyfriend if he is willing to please you that way, if you are scared don't be. Also, direct him to where you like it because you can't let him have all the fun.

[color=Darkorchid] Ask a mod to move it, just file a report on your own thread. Also refrain from double posting =/ [/color]

The easiest way I reach climax is by posting with proper grammar, and not using large, blue text.

[size=10][color=darkblue]thank you, Jonoe. ^_^ that helps alot.[/color][/h]

the small text is much worse than the big text... i have to notepad some of your shit to see it.