I like her, She likes me

So basically I've really close friends with this girl, eventually I told her and then to my surprise I found out she liked me aswell. But heres the problem, she's already going out with somebody else and is torn between us, I've been trying to give her good un-biased advice. But now I know I really want her. What should I do? She isn't sure what to do herself. I don't want to pressure her and above all we want to stay friends atleast.

All advice welcome :)

hmm...all i can say is tell her to make her feelings straight, and pick one or the other. well, it's hard, but that's for the best...

chloroform, after that everything just falls in place, trust me.

Don't tempt me. :P

Iprsonally have never been in this situation but in my opinion you should tell her to follow what hr heart wants (that's just my opinion though)

You and the other guy should fight to the death, and the winner gets the girl. :D

But seriously, if she likes another person while dating someone, then she and the other person probably aren't going to last. Since they're going to break up eventually, she should go ahead and break up with him so she can be with the guy she really wants. It makes sense, doesn't it? If my girlfriend had a crush on another guy while dating me, I'd break up with her.

try to tell her that it's worse for her to be dating someone when her mind is on something else, all it ends up doing is hurting both people in question. If she's a good person she'll probably feel bad about breaking up and not do it, but if she's a good person, she needs to understand that she's dating someone half-heartily and faking or fabricating her feelings towards him.

if you think the guy make her more happy give up but if you think you can be a much better person to her than him be persistent and win her.

i dont know this girl at all, so im sorry if this is completely off target, but i think shes being really selfish and indecisive tying the both of you up like that, and kind of emotionally cheating on her boyfriend. how long has this been going on?

again, i dont know her, but even if you give her really solid advice, its still coming from you, who would benefit from her dumping her boyfriend, so she may not see it as completely unbiased.

also, if she breaks up with the boyfriend and shacks up with you, theres always the chance she could do the same to you.

(i know, im horribly negative)

if i were in your position, i would just tell her to make a list with the pros and cons of being with either one of you(yeah, yeah. old fashioned.), that way, your not influencing her decisions, and itll work like an ouija board!

anyways, good luck.

and think about it if she loves her current boyfriend she will not like somebody else. all i can say is straighten things up with her

no no...too cliche
use less cliche cliches like:
1.get her to picking between two door that are next to each other-twist? the walls are thin enough to hear things from the next room.
2.draw a name from a hat-put a bear trap in for lols
3.eeni meeni miney mo-its a measuring criteria for penis size!
4.use your hentai knowledge a get her all hot and bothered-with fire!
5.demand a decision within a strict deadline. upon the result of indecision bith agree to go into the friend zone or break entirely

but ye..situations like this a quick decision is neccesary but i'm not saying its ever pretty, though

I second that.
Everyone has a point, she can't date 2 guys and if she likes someone but is dating another, well, that would just be a awkward situation.....
Good luck with it, unless you already sorted it out :wink: