I need your advice?

You see me and my gf have been together since grade school. We have the same passion for anime,going to conventions,cosplaying,and drawing.We live in happiness,but what im asking is...I want to make her more happy.Sure we both are devoted to both anime and each other,but I want to make her know that im always there for her and that I love her a little more than anime.Which is for me hard to express.I know this is a pretty dumb question and anyone can figure it out,but I need some advice.

Sorry, couldn't resist.

But seriously, if you want to show your love in some special way, get spontaneous. Take her out on a date when she least expects it, show up with flowers one day, just because. The best thing though is to just spend time with her. Not so much that she feels smothered, but just be there for her. Just don't turn into this guy:

Thanks tsuyoshiro.^-^ Im really grateful for your advice.

yeah bro you need to show her how much you feel about her.
like a date or a gift
what work is if you make like a poem or a song about your feelings for her.
hey Shakespeare did it

well best of luck to you.

Thank you too swordmanXIII.^-^

hmm...did she questioned about your love? doesnt seem that way from your posts...but well, a lil' reminder every now and then will certainly help. it doesnt have to be anything big, just do it the way that suits you best...because i think she'll appreciate it more if it's natural...and if you dont go too far. 8)

and time for a quote...

Such is the inconsistency of real love, that it is always awake to suspicion, however unreasonable; always requiring new assurances from the object of its interest.
-Ann Radcliffe, The Mysteries of Udolpho, 1764-

A thousand thanks mibuchiha.^-^ Oh...and thanks for that quote. Thats something i needed to hear^-^

You could just, you know, tell her that you care about her. If it's hard for you to express yourself like that, then all the more reason to simply say it. She'll know it's hard for you, and she'll appreciate that you overcame your inability and told her how you felt.

Or you could buy her a box of chocolates, same as every other person on the planet on Valentine's Day.

It's hard to give advice to someone when you don't know how they react to their loved one. Generally speaking, though, the best way to show or tell someone that you love them is by doing something for them that requires effort. If, for example, you're one of those guys who can easily say that you love her, it won't be quite as special as someone who can't say it that easily. Someone like that would have to do something to show that they love someone. Like I said, make an effort, do something that she's not expecting, something that is not something that comes naturally to you.

That being said, you don't need to bend over backwards all the time to show that you care. You just have to know how to balance it out. Little unexpected gestures are important if they're spontaneous. It shows that you're thinking about her. If it becomes regular, though, it's something that both of you can easily start taking for granted. You SHOULD tell her that you love her, a lot. That never gets old. Just balance it out every once in a while with something a little special. Doesn't have to cost you a fortune or require you to sweat blood or anything. Just a little something different to show that you're making an effort.

The best way to let someone know you love them, though, will always be communication. TELL her you love her. On purpose, not as an afterthought or a response to her telling YOU. Be affectionate, touch her just because you feel like it, let her know you think about her. Just don't do it so much that it becomes bothersome. Moderation is the key to everything.

Give it some thought and you'll come up with something good. Good luck.

you said that you two were together since gradeschool right, it would be sweet if you take her on a date reminding the fun times you had had since gradeschool, for example goin to your old school and reminding her about past events, like when the day you two met or like the day you two graduated gradeschool just set the mood to be romantic and funny at that time, then as you two go wondering, it might be a perfect opportunity for you to tell her how much you feel.

well that's just an example, maybe you can think of a better idea and perfect plan, i wish you luck.

lol.....

First of all, I would like to congratulate you on your lasting relationship with your girlfriend! Kudos to that!

Well, just like what everyone said, make something that shows your effort, like drawings or poems. Girls love things that are handmade. Or maybe you should make her a bracelet out of sea shells or something.

Though it is still important that you shouldn't smother her all the time, there is always a time for everything and that includes being sweet.

lol that reminds me of what what in the butt...

and for the question...
I don't think it's dumb...you know that you love her, but just can't express it. That not dumb I find myself is like that too...

All I can say is just like the others said, be true to yourself, tell her you love her, sounds old and kinky...but that's what ppl missed so often.