Lack of ambition
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I have a major lack of ambition and I have no idea what I want to do with my life and i'm 20 now and I'm trying to just find some thing I want to learn
but there are so many things I'de like to learn at uni or college, but I can't decide what to do and I need to pick some thing before it's too late
Does any one else feel confused about what to do?
but there are so many things I'de like to learn at uni or college, but I can't decide what to do and I need to pick some thing before it's too late
Does any one else feel confused about what to do?
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Morning Star
Soba-Scans Staff
Not really... although you sound stressed. You may want to spend a day thinking about the future, what you want to do with you life and how you will do it.
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at that point you still have a lot of options,
1. College/University
2. get a job
3. do nothing waste your life fapping
4. choose one of the above
1. College/University
2. get a job
3. do nothing waste your life fapping
4. choose one of the above
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So are you stuck because there is so much you want to do that you can't commit to any one thing? That isn't a lack of ambition, you are just to lazy to meet your ambitions.
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i remember when i was a child i had no motivation, so i worked towards being a pimp and marry the president's daughter..ahahaha FAIL
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Superior wrote...
at that point you still have a lot of options, 1. College/University
2. get a job
3. do nothing waste your life fapping
4. choose one of the above
5. Become An Hero
Fifth option looks like the choice for you. I guarantee you won't have problems with wondering what to do with your life anymore.
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Superior wrote...
i remember when i was a child i had no motivation, so i worked towards being a pimp and marry the president's daughter..ahahaha FAILrofl nice dream for a child :P
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It seems to me this is a problem that's growing at an alarming rate. My theory is it's got to do with how everything is so easy these days. Us westerners often can live in very decent conditions with very little work involved, and we all have access to unlimited amounts of entertainment - so why should we work hard?
If you can find an answer to that, you're on the right track, but sadly ambition isn't a lightning that strikes at you and makes everything easy; it's a fight that you'll continue all your life, because you know you must. If nothing is worth dedicating your life for.. well, you can still live okay, get married or hang out on the webs or whatever. Nothing wrong with taking the easy path. But if you do end up doing that, I recommend you at least find a job that helps other people; that way you won't feel like an asshole when it's time to go.
If you can find an answer to that, you're on the right track, but sadly ambition isn't a lightning that strikes at you and makes everything easy; it's a fight that you'll continue all your life, because you know you must. If nothing is worth dedicating your life for.. well, you can still live okay, get married or hang out on the webs or whatever. Nothing wrong with taking the easy path. But if you do end up doing that, I recommend you at least find a job that helps other people; that way you won't feel like an asshole when it's time to go.
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Age wrote...
I have a major lack of ambition and I have no idea what I want to do with my life and i'm 20 now and I'm trying to just find some thing I want to learn but there are so many things I'de like to learn at uni or college, but I can't decide what to do and I need to pick some thing before it's too late
Does any one else feel confused about what to do?
go get a girlfriend. you'll have a lot to learn then..