i think anything that satifies you sexually is sex, but i think there are different levels of sex. just for example: barely sex, almost sex, sex, advance sex, extreame sex, ect. i think that even thought its not really sex its considered a sexual act so it should be classified as sex what do you think?
in another thread i read that that they believe penitration is sex but depending on your gender you do penatration while masterbation so does that mean that penatration does not equal sex. then what defines sex?
also if you masterbating and someone is massaging you is it sex cuz its two people?
That depends. Solo masturbation I definitely wouldn't consider, but mutual masturbation on the other hand is a little bit more difficult to define one way or the other.