Your Partner & Your Fantasies
Do you/would you share your fantasies with your partner?
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Today I was linked a video by [size=10][the American comedian][/h] Bill Maher, wherein he rants about the alleged impossibility of a couple having mutual fantasies:
Trust me ladies there is no fantasy where a handsome prince runs across a dewy meadow, takes you his arms, pledges his undying love for you…and then cums on your face. That would be a mutual fantasy
Together with what I would have replied to this recent thread, and a conversation I had with one member of this fine community, it led me to wonder what other participants of fakku! might make of this.
Do you and your partner share your fantasies with each other? (or, if you're not currently in a relationship, would you?)
If so, how do you feel about sharing your innermost secrets? Are you at ease and comfortable with it, or are you reluctant and squeamish about it?
Lastly, how do you feel about your partner's fantasies? Do they embarrass, offend or bore you, or do you enjoy learning about them?
To get the thread started, I'll offer my personal angle on this below.
Bill Maher wrote...
I was watching television the other day. The topic on this show, of which only a woman could possibly say, was “couples should explore mutual fantasies”. No such thing as mutual fantasies. Yours bore us - ours offend you!Trust me ladies there is no fantasy where a handsome prince runs across a dewy meadow, takes you his arms, pledges his undying love for you…and then cums on your face. That would be a mutual fantasy
Together with what I would have replied to this recent thread, and a conversation I had with one member of this fine community, it led me to wonder what other participants of fakku! might make of this.
Do you and your partner share your fantasies with each other? (or, if you're not currently in a relationship, would you?)
If so, how do you feel about sharing your innermost secrets? Are you at ease and comfortable with it, or are you reluctant and squeamish about it?
Lastly, how do you feel about your partner's fantasies? Do they embarrass, offend or bore you, or do you enjoy learning about them?
To get the thread started, I'll offer my personal angle on this below.
Spoiler:
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I'm very open with my girlfriend about my fantasies, and so is she*.
I too was very shy in the beggining when explaining her some of the stuff I fantasized about. My fantasies never did shock her, I believe. As they turned out to be pretty innocent.
Now her fantasies, some of them shocked me a bit. Simply because they were something I wouldn't consider doing and/or considered it to be a little over the top for me (such as: having sex in a car). But they were nothing too extreme, so I was never too shocked. There's one though that pops out from the rest of them -> cuffs. Uh, no, I don't think so.
So yeah, basically, we're very confortable talking about our fantasies, I believe. Also, she came to embrace some of my fantasies as her own. Which makes me happy in a way.
*One thing I thought about when reading the opening post and poll was that:
-How do you know if your partner is being sincere about her fantasies? As in, you may share your deepest fantasies with your partner, and be completely open to her about it. But she may not be as honest as you are to her, causing a false illusion of intimate trust.
I too was very shy in the beggining when explaining her some of the stuff I fantasized about. My fantasies never did shock her, I believe. As they turned out to be pretty innocent.
Now her fantasies, some of them shocked me a bit. Simply because they were something I wouldn't consider doing and/or considered it to be a little over the top for me (such as: having sex in a car). But they were nothing too extreme, so I was never too shocked. There's one though that pops out from the rest of them -> cuffs. Uh, no, I don't think so.
So yeah, basically, we're very confortable talking about our fantasies, I believe. Also, she came to embrace some of my fantasies as her own. Which makes me happy in a way.
*One thing I thought about when reading the opening post and poll was that:
-How do you know if your partner is being sincere about her fantasies? As in, you may share your deepest fantasies with your partner, and be completely open to her about it. But she may not be as honest as you are to her, causing a false illusion of intimate trust.
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my patner and i share about the same shock level when it comes to fantasies and even have some in common
