Erotical Illusions - A Talk with Ogi Ogas

Yes, the guy has a funny name (subjective?), but this was a very interesting talk that I wanted to share.



Don't be surprised by the length, he only spends 30 minutes on the actual talk, the rest is Q&A. He doesn't repeat many things, except when giving examples.

He basically talks about the cues that turn people on, for each gender, and the reasoning behind it. I suggest everyone watch it so they can have a better understanding before the discussion begins.

Anyway, do you support/agree with what he says? That men are turned on mainly by visual cues, and women by a mix of emotional & physical? That the main parts men are sexually attracted to are breasts, butt, feet, and penis? That women are sexually attracted to confidence and competence?

I almost watched it all and I can say that I agree a little bit.
I can't agree about the woman part since I am not one but the man part?
Yeah, sure, some of it are correct on my I guess.
I can't speak on the contrary for other males but I myself find nothing wrong with a futa (girlguy) fucking a girl.
Altho I can never imagine myself watching a futa (girlguy) fucking a guy.
I am just not... that much into it.
But he has some valid points in there.

Yeah almost watch it all too, really don't know.
I'm neutral because I can't decide if I agree or disagree.

Shiwasu no Okina's "Sei So Tsui Dan Sha"*, best explains my alternate theory on the hetero male interest in shemale porn. It's all the fun of lesbian pron, but with MY dick thrown in.


I disagree with the 'big dick' supposition as well. I watch those porns for the womens reactions. They tend to be more realistic than in regular pron because size does matter.




*Why is that one not uploaded here?

Now that I finally went through them video, I'm gonna say that I do agree with what was said in it.
I personally don't like futanari , but I never really understood why some guys did (whether it be others guys here or customers at my store), and after watching them video it makes a lot more sense now.

I can also agree about a woman's cues as well. Vouching by sharing interests with girls and just by seeing whats considered popular for women. I see guys at my store get shemale porn the majority of the time, and the few women who do come in and are looking for videos, will either head to the male section or asked us to find a video that has some plot (though more often thank not, its just to get a toy).

Tl;dr, after looking back and thinking of what men and women seems to be interested in, that many was correctly for the most part.

I have to agree with this..

Although, Yeah, Any guy can get aroused and finish(masturbation) at visual aspects, during sex theres no way that I could check out chick#1 and decide if shes good enough. Their has to be come kind of emotional feeling to it too.

and of course I can't speak for women.
Something i'd like to know is.. if theres some kind of balance for them, If someone is very competent, but not at that avarage level of confedence, does it affect them more? and if there an attraction to "under-confedence" or a level of it.

I think the statements that he made is true. Even though its embarrassing to admit it.

As a man I agree with pretty much all he said about visual ques in men except I don't like feet and the penis is agreeably but I would of said an interest in the vagina as well. In women I agree with it except I have noticed friends that are women not follow those ques and go with visual ques and things that would be negative to emotional and their capabilities ques. The part about lesbians and gays was quite interesting. Would be nice to hear a study on turn offs.

Interest in Futanari I'd say is defiantly different between heterosexuals and bisexuals. I like futanari pretty much only like futa on futa and futa on girl. I don't like futa and a guy much and only ok if the guy is doing the poking. I think bisexuals would like all futa. Girls could be into futa if they were writing to fit their cues.

Seems true. Although I'm not interested in futa that much.

The number one fetish for males is actually shemales (no surprise, we all know how big futanari is), aka my favourite genre too

Wasn't this vid in SD not too long ago?
Anyways, I will say that I agree with what he said, especially since I noticed most of this stuff already.

lol yeah i found it hilarious when i noticed ive seen all the image he posted



skip to 21:30 if u wanna hear straight about shemale pron

That reminds me.
So after I intially saw the video, I had went to work the next day( I work at a porn store) and noticed what he meant when he said that them opposite of shemales would not be that appealing. At least the description he gave a big, rough looking guy
with tattoos... With a pair of tits and a pussy.
Shit was not pleasant and it gave me 70 different flavors of what the fuck. I think the guy(?) was called Diesel or something.

You realize that traps(shemales) and futa(women with dicks and pussies) are two different things. Right?

not that different at all imo, as long as they have tits, a female face, doesnt matter if they have a vag too

i think i saws this before....

As a female I can agree with some of the cues, but the part about discussing sexual interest with other females.. no, thats not me, and though interested in what other people like, that isn't going to change what I am interested in.

About physical and mental arousal being separated... sooo true
Slash fiction? I'm not into yaoi soo no on that too.
Not a Twilight fan at all, but erotic literature is great

This is nicely researched but it seems flawed in some areas, like how could he not include lesbians in his research and I think cultural differences (q&a 34:49) play a very important role as well

I kinda agree with him, but I think it's important to make the distinction between what I think is erotic and what I like. Boobs are definitely the most erotic thing for me. I'm straight, but I think that when the penis is gone, it's not erotic (just look at censorship, it's a total turn-off). The butt is kinda erotic, and I have no idea how feet are erotic.

but I think it's important to realize that there are things that some guys really like, but don't necessarily find it erotic. for me, I love a cute face more than anything. I like happy, loyal, loving relationships, as well as an innocent attitude. These things aren't erotic, but I like them.

force/rape h-manga is very erotic for me, but I don't like them. I really like soft vanilla/echi, but I don't think they're erotic. overall, I prefer what I like over what is erotic. they're are times when the vanilla just isn't working and I resort to rape, but honestly, I don't like it. I love vanilla, and I usually don't care what's erotic.