Manga & Eromanga: Why Is It So Appealing?

Recently, a YouTube reviewer named Richard C. Meyer
(AKA, Ya Boi Zack) posted a video called "Bat-Manga:
Batman & The Justice League, by Shiori Teshirogi"
(which I encourage you to watch).

During that video, Meyer offers a brilliant insight
(which I have paraphrased):
"Even when manga gets really dark, there's a 'goodness'
that comes through from the creator... There's just some-
thing clean and happy and fun and normal about manga.
I feel like mangaka are normal people, just a bit nerdier
than average. I don't feel gross after reading one of their
stories, even when it goes to a really dark place."

That's a fascinating observation, and I think it applies
equally well to eromanga. Even in the most perverted
chapters, there's a certain warmth and humanity that
comes through, which is quite appealing.

I don't necessarily disagree about mangaka, especially after TheAnimeMan's interview with ShindoL and meeting MEME50 at AnimeExpo, but I've read plenty of eromanga that made me feel "ehh" afterwards, especially far down the rabbit hole.

Then you will love Meyer's remarks about
mangaka interviews.

Uh, okay, but if I agree with Meyer on that point then I don't see the need to discuss it. Like no offense, but I don't think you get the "discussion" part of "serious discussion".

Edit: For example, I disagreed about the eromanga part--do you have an opinion regarding that?