Maybe some opinionative advice?...
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
The first question you have to ask is the why. Why do you feel no motivation? Is it because you're unsure of the direction you are heading? Is it because you feel no confidence in yourself? Why is it that you lack it?
This isn't an easy question, and it can take time before you are even completely sure of the why, but it is important to figure out because this is the reason you have having this difficulty. If you don't fix the root of the problem you will never cure it.
The second thing is you have to realize it does take time to make a difference in things. A large accomplishment is just many small parts working together. So let's say that the reason you feel unmotivated is because you don't feel confident. Well there's many small things you can do to help with this. Do something you know you can do and then reward yourself something small. And then slowly work your way up. Maybe next time do something you're a little unsure of and when you clear through it give yourself the small reward then.
The important thing is that you have to be willing to change, and to make changes as you go along.
One last thing, are you not doing too hot in the online classes because of this? If you are having that much difficulty, then you might want to stop with this semester until you feel you get your life more in order. Trust me, it can be entirely too easy to go into a downward spiral with classes if you don't have the motivation for them, and to keep taking them in that state will not help anything and will only make things worse.
This isn't an easy question, and it can take time before you are even completely sure of the why, but it is important to figure out because this is the reason you have having this difficulty. If you don't fix the root of the problem you will never cure it.
The second thing is you have to realize it does take time to make a difference in things. A large accomplishment is just many small parts working together. So let's say that the reason you feel unmotivated is because you don't feel confident. Well there's many small things you can do to help with this. Do something you know you can do and then reward yourself something small. And then slowly work your way up. Maybe next time do something you're a little unsure of and when you clear through it give yourself the small reward then.
The important thing is that you have to be willing to change, and to make changes as you go along.
One last thing, are you not doing too hot in the online classes because of this? If you are having that much difficulty, then you might want to stop with this semester until you feel you get your life more in order. Trust me, it can be entirely too easy to go into a downward spiral with classes if you don't have the motivation for them, and to keep taking them in that state will not help anything and will only make things worse.
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Regarding online classes: I thought in taking online classes too, but I knew they would never work out, I knew I would be slacking off and just playing games and not giving a care to class. So I stuck with the regular classes. You have to find motivation for yourself and why you are doing this.
I myself didn't have friends halfway through high school, I also didn't know what else to do. The "friends" I knew at the time were split, some graduated, others were just plain assholes. I picked myself up and met new people, I was very reluctant about it and it turned out to be one of the best things I have ever done.
Everyone has self worth and no one can judge or determine who is worth more, don't worry so much. You're going to find someone one day who will value you more than anyone else out there. You can't just give up on life and say it's over, give something new a shot.
I myself didn't have friends halfway through high school, I also didn't know what else to do. The "friends" I knew at the time were split, some graduated, others were just plain assholes. I picked myself up and met new people, I was very reluctant about it and it turned out to be one of the best things I have ever done.
Everyone has self worth and no one can judge or determine who is worth more, don't worry so much. You're going to find someone one day who will value you more than anyone else out there. You can't just give up on life and say it's over, give something new a shot.
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I'm stuck in that after-graduation rut too when it comes to finding an appreciative social ring, still seeking a true best friend. But I have current happiness that doesn't let me become fazed by social delusions.
Even online, you can ask others for advice but in the end you must determine what it is what you really want. My goal when giving advice is never to share my ideal imagine but to empower one's free will to think.
I always feel that one won't be anymore happy finding a social circle of people who make them change and work hard in order to be accepted. As people, we all enjoy to depend on one another despite what some may say. Never change yourself because you just want to impress someone else. Often a fatal mistake on self-worth. Those who are stronger are able to find self-worth in their own value without needing the praise or recognition of others. It is hard to hold a strong open mind when dealing with today's closed-minded society. Even I fight urges and doubts everyday.
Should you ever need a online buddy to chat with, feel free to send me a message. I like sharing experiences.
Even online, you can ask others for advice but in the end you must determine what it is what you really want. My goal when giving advice is never to share my ideal imagine but to empower one's free will to think.
I always feel that one won't be anymore happy finding a social circle of people who make them change and work hard in order to be accepted. As people, we all enjoy to depend on one another despite what some may say. Never change yourself because you just want to impress someone else. Often a fatal mistake on self-worth. Those who are stronger are able to find self-worth in their own value without needing the praise or recognition of others. It is hard to hold a strong open mind when dealing with today's closed-minded society. Even I fight urges and doubts everyday.
Should you ever need a online buddy to chat with, feel free to send me a message. I like sharing experiences.
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Strive for a better future my friend.
It is your life after all, I am not saying you should have any pressure or anything, just take it easy and slowly climb towards a better future.
No need to hurry, but the most important thing in life is.. knowing who you are and what you would like to do in the future.
If there is nothing to do, then just do something out of your range and maybe something will pop up and gives you a reason running again.
If you need any advice's on your future and living positive, then just pm me, I would be glad to help you.
It is your life after all, I am not saying you should have any pressure or anything, just take it easy and slowly climb towards a better future.
No need to hurry, but the most important thing in life is.. knowing who you are and what you would like to do in the future.
If there is nothing to do, then just do something out of your range and maybe something will pop up and gives you a reason running again.
If you need any advice's on your future and living positive, then just pm me, I would be glad to help you.