I was caught between moving this thread to Random or the Cosplays and Conventions section. However, after reading through the thread starter's post, I decided that this thread might be more appropriately located in the latter.
Getting back on topic, there is always some element of risk when meeting a stranger for the first time, even though both parties may have some contact through the internet or other means. It is up to every individual to take precautions. Of course, try not to be too uptight, lest it ruins a potentially strong friendship.