YQII wrote...
drumstick00m wrote...
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I appreciate the background information on Japanese culture, but I think this is an over simplification of it, judging by how consent is handled in the stories on Fakku. I think Fakku has to make a decision on which cultural orientation it will follow, in regards to tagging. I would say that the majority of Fakku readers are Western and so it makes sense to tag according to those ideas.
I have read tens of hundreds of stories over the last year+ and I have to say I have seen maybe a handful of 'vanilla' tagged stories that should have the forced tag (imo), so I strongly disagree that a change in the consent definition will alter many stories at all. In fact, I would argue that those stories were incorrectly tagged vanilla.
The tagging on Fakku is fairly inconsistant at best. As a reader, it is clear that there are no guidelines or definitions of tags, to guide editors in their tagging. I have seen this on stories where the editor will talk with readers as to why a tag is in/appropriate, or for example on the latest Fakku book,
Let Your Smile Bloom 3.
In that chapter, the female character is literally tied up and forced to have sex. On page 20, she is actively yelling 'no' and 'stop'. Yet there is no 'forced' tag. At that point, why bother with the tag? I have yet to see a chapter that is tagged 'forced' to be that explicit in a character's refusal of sex.
Active consent is a great thing and there are many stories on Fakku with that (maybe a tag?). There are also stories that have the character saying no, but thinking or otherwise indicating consent. I agree, those can be tough to tag and make everyone happy. In that scenario, I personally wouldn't tag it as forced, since we as the omnipent viewer can see that it is consensual, even though from the other character's point of view, it could be rape.
I think a difficult point is that in porn, there will be lines that are used by actual rapists, such as "I can't stop myself" or the "your body is honest" (which I personally hate). I think in some ways, this is unavoidable because a person in a consentual encounter can say something that a rapist would also say. Just in the last week, I have seen stories where both people give consent, and yet the MC will say he "can't hold back". That phrase alone can't qualify a story as 'forced' or not.
I am not here to judge people's fantasy or try to impose real world legality on contectual stories. However, accurate, consistant tagging is in everybody's interest. From those who want to read it, to those that want to avoid it, to those that are tagging other stories and need examples.