opanihuya wrote...
You believed I or someone else could pull off a miracle in this situation? As soon as you put that pm for everyone to see, the pureness of that action was already in question. Plus after you showed that you were only interested in reward it became clear as day that you weren't going to let her back, like seriously, reward for unbanning koko? You knew from the start there would be no reward, aside ridiculing her even more. Her only hope was through Jacob but he asked you two haters to make peace. And after she put a lousy pm asking you to leave your disagreement behind what did you do, asked her to fix her attitude and try again?
You presented it to ib, fully aware what it would cause. Nothing was pure here from the start man.
I was clear from the start that this wasn't a witch hunt, I defended those that stayed on topic and berated those that attacked them. How do her words/her pm reveal my intentions? The risk was the risk of her relapsing and attacking people vs the reward of whatever she provided the site, it had nothing to do with personal gain for myself... It feels like it's getting harder and harder to get you to understand, and I'm starting to wonder if it's a lack of basic understanding of the English language. I asked her to fix the attitude the last time she asked to be allowed back and you can probably guess how she responded, this was beyond me wagging my finger at her, I wanted solutions and I wanted the community to come up with them, because if I just unbanned her the majority would harass and poke at her until she snapped again, the only way to make the community accept her is to make them feel like they had some hand in this.
I knew she had haters, and I know they would respond but as I said a couple of times hate and opinion don't sway me when I'm trying to do my job. Wanted to add you yourself said
opanihuya wrote...
I kinda like that the staff allows us to debate their decisions and that jacob's opinion could be ignored (?!)
so which was it, am I allowing users to debate one of my decisions or am I using this opportunity to bully people again. She does have friends and I hoped they would speak up. Don't speak of my intentions as if you know me. You really don't.
Edit; You sure do like to paint me as a villain even when I'm doing my job properly.