HumbugsAssociate wrote...
Actions involve someone else. The murder or the homosexual encounter counts as an action. A sexual fantasy wank or writing down huge piles of murder plans are actions as well, but they're meaningless unless they're done. We shouldn't be a form of thought police. OP will behave as he likes, let him think his actions for himself rather than take in the labels from others. Finally, stop trying to turn the world queer, Pyre, that's a feminist's job.
Acting on your sexual fantasies by fapping to feminine men is different than simply writing down plots for murders. Actions don't have to involve someone else, for instance you can be a masochist simply by undertaking the action of harming yourself and then enjoying it, you don't have to have someone else do it to you. I'm not stereotyping people or putting random labels on them, I'm pointing out the formal definitions for what constitutes homosexuality and masturbating to feminine men happens to meet that definition.
Society agrees on definitions for a reason, there is no point to them if people like you constantly skew their meaning just to benefit your argument and enforce your denial. Down means down, it doesn't mean a little to the right and then down or a little to the left and then down, and it certainly doesn't mean up, it means down. Based on formal definition if you masturbate to feminine males, you are expressing homosexual tendencies and are either bisexual or gay. There is no "might be gay" there is no "it's a fantasy so it's not real". That's like saying that a man who fantasizes about getting fucked up the ass by other men and then masturbates to that thought isn't gay.