But for me (or anyone who is actually into bondage) it is such a let down to find a shibari tag that does nothing to restrict the person. And on the flip side of things, to come across a story with no shibari tag, but does have bondage. I don't necessarily have to have bondage, but when I want to look for it, I just have to pick a genre (femdom, forced, trap, etc.) and hope that there is bondage.