Sounds like you're going through a lot. Should you really spend your time here on Fakku, though? And forgive me for asking, but how old are you exactly?
Most of this is irrelevant, it is just my mother's foolish actions tend to annoy me, and that is just my casual introduction for my father. Chatting online actually helps keep me as sane as is possible, and I am 19.
The one outside the brackets is your actual post count. Posts made in IB (including Nosebleed and Chat Topics) don't count to this. The on IN brackets is your TOTAL count, including IB.
You do NOT want it happening earlier! At least the weather will get a little colder from now. Earlier, and you would have had to face fasting AND the heat!