devsonfire wrote...
I don't really wanna try and give it a spin just for the sake of it. I'm gonna change the way I see her, but, if at the end of the day I still can't do it, I guess that would be all.
Well ok, you're the 'why' type, I'm the 'why not' type. Still, unless if you have some strong reason to say no, just give it a try. Worst that can happen is that you discover that you two are that incompatible as lovers (this, btw, should NOT be influenced by the crappy bias of 'We're just friends and not lovers desu~') and that things won't work out. By then, having tried, I think she would be able to accept it.
But again I say, I don't fucking get the whole 'friends only' crap. I see it as nothing more than a nice lie people say when she finds some guy to be ugly and so don't want to fuck him, but at the same time trying to play the gay "I don't wanna hurt ppl so ppl shud be able to magically read my honest intentions without me saying so" game. Smh.
p/s: lovers, on the other hand, to me is just sorta close people that fucks each other. it's like friends, but better.
p/p/s: unless if you restrict your definition of 'friends' to 'those who wastes time in the same way I do (aka hobby)' then yes, the gap between that and lovers can be large.