SalvatioFuerte wrote...
I don't self-insert.
I'm just a disembodied floating observer jacking it to the plight of fictional 2D characters.
Pretty much this.
I'm a big NTR fan and pretty much never self-insert as the protagonist so I never really come away feeling sad or angry. (also FFS its porn, get over it...)
I also kinda like the mind-break aspect of it, in that the wife/GF gets so horny that they give in to extreme desires/ are willing to cheat. There's a corruption fetish in there too, i guess.
Plus i'm all about Milfs and that and NTR often go hand-in-hand.