I recall my dad telling me just the other day that "If you have a lot of sexualization of your female characters in your writing then not only will women not like your story they will also see you as a person that views all women as sex objects."
Ya, except for the fact that fantasy and reality are two different things.
Its like all that bullshit that politicians and whoever else have been spewing about violent video games cause violent crimes. Like, Im honestly curious now, how many people out there are unable to separate reality from fantasy? Is that a common thing? Am I the only one that doesn't combine the two? If that was the case then I had better report Luinthoron to the police. He likes lolis, and since people obviously can't separate reality and fantasy that must mean he is a actual child molester right?
OF COURSE HE ISN'T!
Luin is fine. Reality and fantasy exist as separate things. Someone playing Call of Duty doesn't mean they are going to shoot up everyone.
Now keep in mind that I'm not saying they are completely unrelated. Apples and oranges are different but they are still both fruits. I like big tits in fantasy, I like big tits in reality. Those are the same so that must mean that I can't separate them right? WRONG! Me liking big tits in reality doesn't lead to some kind of criminal or morally reprehensible act. I can like big tits without become a serial rapist. I can like big tits without being a chauvinist that thinks all women are just sex objects.
There is a boundary that exists that tells people what is right and wrong. People can murder a million people in video games but they know that going out and killing people in reality is not something you do, ever. There are certain psychopaths that don't have this moral boundary but thats a whole different issue.
This also makes me wonder if people who don't embrace fantasy worry that it will actually affect their reality. Like if I don't like elf women because I'm worried if I become to attached to a fantasy idea then I can no longer like human women in reality. Why would you ever think that?
Fantasy is amazing because it allows us to experience things that we never could in reality. Fantasy isn't something you go to in order to live reality. This is exactly the reason why I hate video games like Grand Theft Auto or Call of Duty. They project far too much reality into this fantasy. Honestly, its games like that that I think might be the problem of people losing sight of what is real and what is fantasy. If you make your fantasy too real then it loses the essence of what makes fantasy great. If I want to write a story about a mega slutty supermodel that has a magical stone embedded in one of her eyes that shoots laser beams, that does not mean I think of all women in real life that way. Beacuse thats absurd, clearly there are no women with eye beams, so why should you take the rest of it seriously?
I can't go out and find a spider girl to fuck because there are none. So, why would you view something like that to be dangerous thing to like fantasizing about? As I pointed out with CoD or GTA, fantasy only gets to a point when it might be considered dangerous when the fantasy stops being a fantasy and instead a projection of reality. As absurd as the argument that "video game violence causes real violence" is. I think what might be the best way to silence all the people with that idea is to stop making games that ruin fantasy with reality. You never hear anyone blame Dragon Age for a school shooting. Beacuse Dragon Age is a complete fantasy, through and through.
If for some reason there are a bunch of people out that there that have difficulty separating reality from fantasy then why on earth are you making it harder for them to do that by removing the fantasy from a fantasy?
Everyone can enjoy fantasy, fantasy exists for you to live out your wildest imaginations. If you want to imagine that you fucked the busty queen of a alien planet into becoming your slave, thats great, go for it. Its your fantasy. Embracing fantasy is something I think everyone should do. If you spend too much of your time focusing on reality then your life is likely to become a stressful mess.
Well, some countries have banned 2D loli as well remember. Which I really don't understand. Wouldn't you rather they look at drawings instead of the real thing?
I agree with the violence in games, doesn't make me wanna kill someone in real life and I think I've only heard 2 reports while I've been alive that the police thought were possibly linked to games.
Well, some countries have banned 2D loli as well remember. Which I really don't understand. Wouldn't you rather they look at drawings instead of the real thing?
I agree with the violence in games, doesn't make me wanna kill someone in real life and I think I've only heard 2 reports while I've been alive that the police thought were possibly linked to games.
but when take a closer look at those cases, the people have had mental issues, or had issues in their life.
most of the time these people have been bullied, had mental issues of some sort.
but when take a closer look at those cases, the people have had mental issues, or had issues in their life.
most of the time these people have been bullied, had mental issues of some sort.
Well, some countries have banned 2D loli as well remember. Which I really don't understand. Wouldn't you rather they look at drawings instead of the real thing?
This just goes back to what I said at the beginning of my rant. People have this assumption that beacuse you have a fantasy for something means that you must obviously pursue that thing in reality. Objectifying women in fantasy stories I write doesn't mean I do that in reality just like looking at loli in hentai doesn't mean you go after children in reality.
The problem is that for some fucking reason people don't understand this. They don't seperate the reality from the fantasy.
This just goes back to what I said at the beginning of my rant. People have this assumption that beacuse you have a fantasy for something means that you must obviously pursue that thing in reality. Objectifying women in fantasy stories I write doesn't mean I do that in reality just like looking at loli in hentai doesn't mean you go after children in reality.
The problem is that for some fucking reason people don't understand this. They don't seperate the reality from the fantasy.
Governments decide on what we all must be thinking, yup.
Well, some countries have banned 2D loli as well remember. Which I really don't understand. Wouldn't you rather they look at drawings instead of the real thing?
This just goes back to what I said at the beginning of my rant. People have this assumption that because you have a fantasy for something means that you must obviously pursue that thing in reality. Objectifying women in fantasy stories I write doesn't mean I do that in reality just like looking at loli in hentai doesn't mean you go after children in reality.
The problem is that for some fucking reason people don't understand this. They don't separate the reality from the fantasy.
the problems is someone who is ill informed make a news article or TV show and people mindless follow it without looking into them self and never do any research into it and check the fact given and for TV/news/media companies it's all about money.
for V/news/media companies all they do is jump to conclusion and never check facts.
lets take westminster attack, when it happened the news jumped to ISIS and religion, but later found out the guy, had been a christian who converted to muslim, he had been in prison for attacking someone, he had cocaine and drink addiction.
but looking at his history, religion had knowing to do with it, he was simple a violent person to start of with.
or the canada attack last year, the news report said muslim terrorist and later came it it wasn't and looking at the some of the comments made, it never was reported as muslim terrorist in canada and the police never said it muslim terrorist.
there was also a report that came out that showed people who played violents game are less likely to act violently then someone who hasn't played violent games.
i also remember seeing report where pedo's who were given loli pic and video, were less likely to go and seek the really thing.
but for TV/news/media companies it's not about being right but about making money.
games, anime, tv shows, online allow us to escape really life and blow of steam from stress and problems from day to day life.
religion, games, anime, manga do not make bad people,
there are bad people in the planet who will follow other bad people.
people who don't think for themself will follow other people
Its so hard finding any succubus hentai/doujin that actually make it feel like the succubus is a terrifying demon. So far this one called Club Succubus by Stealth Changing Line is one of the closest ones I've seen
Its so hard finding any succubus hentai/doujin that actually make it feel like the succubus is a terrifying demon. So far this one called Club Succubus by Stealth Changing Line is one of the closest ones I've seen
Yup, most the ones I've read just seem like kuudere girls who want a lot of sex and that's it. No demon personality what-so-ever.