MilkTeaRomance wrote...
Zeph=3 wrote...
MilkTeaRomance wrote...
I have a .. concern and question...
Is it bad to be considered "pure" and "innocent" in today's world? Is it so wrong? Or would that be considered "ignorant"? ...
Pure and innocent isn't too bad in this world. It's just that you have some certain disadvantages. "Ignorance is bliss". Depends on the person. As for me, I couldn't be pure or innocent. Maybe naive and sometimes ignorant, but that's all. TO be pure, you'd probably have to be sheltered from the outside world, letting in no stains. Well, unless of course, you're REALLY ignorant. But I don't know. Whatever it takes to live in the world. If you're pure and innocent and you get along just fine, then I guess you're set.
I don't know ... I've been called 'innocent' and 'pure' on my way of thinking. But on the other hand, I have been called 'ignorant' and 'naive' also ... So I'm wondering which is what? I know people have different opinions on it. But is it so bad that I do know people are corrupt but I still want to give them a chance? Or I don't like to lie? Follow rules? Be as positive as I can? Do I have to grow some balls, so to speak and be cold and confident as to which I just want to double or even triple check to make sure what I do is going to be OK with work or advice?
It's confusing and so frustrating ... It's enough to make me cry. I keep on thinking there is something wrong with me.
There is a limit to a person's innocence and pureness. When someone decides to try to overcome that limit, it's most likely that it will have backfired and then the person was considered "ignorant" or "naive". When a person thinks too much about trying to give another person a chance, without having consulted it with them or trying to learn their feelings or how it would affect them, it'll hurt a lot.
Positivity 24/7 just doesn't work out. If people tried to be positive all the time, they'd be more depressed and tired than positive. People just have to live. Go with the flow and do what you think is right. If you have any doubts, of course something will go wrong. But that's okay. 'Cause there's always more chances. It's up to the person to grab them.
You don't need to grow stronger. You can if you want to. Do you want to change? Do you want to know who you are? Learn. Learn about yourself as much as you can. You're a very strong person. I had a similar problem, so I know what it's like.
There's nothing wrong with you, you're just being "human" like we all are. You're just a very sweet girl who thinks too much. Just calm yourself down each time you feel like crying and breathe. Breathing is something that we don't need to think about, so you automatically know that breathing is perfectly fine. If you ever need to talk about anything or you just want to vent, feel free to come to me.