CreampieHoney wrote...
LOL, zany statements as always, JD.
Thank you, for the boost of confidence. We have to assert our manly ways anyways. I'm both Daddy and Mommy at home. I'm a no nonsense kinda guy when getting my ADHD/LD/GDD boy to execute tasks. I'm just glad that I'm in Asia where punishment is our God-given right (I'm not talking about a busing a child, here). Here's my view on things. Children will be children and they will test and push boundaries. Being firm and exercising your parental right is constructive in developing the child holistically.
My mom beat the crap outta me, and I ain't no pussy. She's the best mom I ever had. My father is a different story. It was in my opinion, as a child, that one of my brothers was my dad. I had to be corrected and a parent-teacher conference occurred. I think my mom could have raised all of us without my father because she's got a good balance of masculine and feminine, hardcore Libra. Lolll. I should start callin' you sugar daddy
Sorata wrote...
@Orangie I still believe once you have enough time to spend with your baby (that is waking up, changing nappies, feeding time, cuddles and holding, baby walks, some fresh air, putting to sleep, waking up at night tocheck on baby, stop baby crying and cuddling it to sleep again) all those things will add up and add to the babies experience in life. He will find it the routine and norm for how his day should be, and get used to your touch and way . I am sure you will be able to adjust over time too and maybe the shudder will be gone. Dont forget the baby is constantly growing and adjusting to you as well! Just holding babies for a few moments sometimes isnt the best indication since we all know how tempermental babies are!
I am still sure you will make a great mum though since I can see that you put a lot of care in everything you do^_^
Lolol, Sorata, get the fuck out of here, you hardcore pessimist