Waar wrote...
So you're accusing me of being a liar then... amusing.
No Waar, I would have called you out as a liar if I meant exactly that.
Waar wrote...
Yes, other people (me in this case) are capable of determining whether your actions are justifiable, and as I said, they are not. You may not like that call, and disagree with it wholeheartedly but your agreement has nothing to do with my actions, I will continue to act according to my judgement of the situation.
What I am saying is that I perceive my own reality, and from my perception my own justification supersedes yours. You do not determine
my justifications of the actions that
I take for
me.
Pyre wrote...
How am I supposed to talk to you if you don't even tell me what's going on? As far as I was aware, you and everyone else in the group took Droomy's words as the truth, I didn't find out about it until a while after it happened. Clear up the problem? Do you think I would want to be buddy-buddy or care about such things after what happened?
Waar wrote...
You found out eventually right? And talking to us about it wasn't on the table at that point?
Was talking about it on the table? No.
Droomy was someone that knew me personally, and took great lengths to try and ruin my life, this was not the only thing I had to deal with. I was not willing to cooperate with or trust anyone at that point in time, especially those who were associated with him in any way. Childish? Stupid? Being a selfish bitch? Call it what you will, I don't disagree. I did what I did because of the way I felt, it is not the first time I have acted irrationally and probably won't be the last, I have accepted this and have already moved on.
Waar wrote...
You're trying to defend yourself so I don't taint your reputation among others, I get that, so in essence you have to convince me to stop, otherwise you're not going to change anything. So you have to pick pyre, care about what I'm saying and attempt to change my opinion, or give up and get over the fact that I call you a liar almost every time we interact.
No Waar, like I said this isn't about you. You don't have to stop calling me a liar, you're free to take whatever actions you choose and say whatever you want. The only thing I wanted is for people to be able to make judgements based on both sides of the spectrum, not just yours. I got what I wanted.
Waar wrote...
Still going to reiterate that I had no idea what was said by droomy.
I trust the person who told me about what was happening wholeheartedly, if it weren't for them my life would be a complete wreck. It is possible the person who informed me about what was happening was misled. If what you say is true, and you really had no idea what was happening at the time, then I am sorry. That is all I will say because I still have no way of confirming your words.
Waar wrote...
So you have to pick pyre, care about what I'm saying and attempt to change my opinion, or give up and get over the fact that I call you a liar almost every time we interact.
I would prefer it if we didn't have to interact poorly. For the most part I do not enjoy conflict, no matter who it's with or what kind of opinion I have of them. At the same time, I did lie, I never denied that, it's the truth and I have already moved on. Now that my side of the story is out there as well, there is nothing left for me to do. If you call me a liar it is not important, the point was never to get you to stop, only for people to see thing from both viewpoints and make their own judgements.
Am I going to care more about what you say and try to change your opinion? In order for either of our opinions to change, mine on what happened and yours of me as a liar, we need to interact as civil beings. Knowing you as a person you're very firm in your beliefs and stubborn when it comes to changing your opinion. Not that it's a bad thing. But, if you start every interaction off with a negative comment, and you're unwilling to let your own opinion change, I don't see how your opinion could possibly do so.
I can neither try to change your opinion or choose the way we interact with each other. In this scenario you have control, it is up to you what happens from now on, not me. I will continue doing what I am doing right now, living my life and socializing with people that want to interact with me. If you ever want to interact with me and open the chance for your opinion to improve, I have no qualms with that, maybe mine will change as well. 'til then and beyond, feel free to say and think what you want man.