Renovartio wrote...
Misaki_Chi wrote...
Renovartio wrote...
Misaki_Chi wrote...
R. wrote...
no place in the world for nice guys
Fuck that shit, no place in the world for women fucked up in the head who only have issues with their man being "too nice".
The amount of assholes I have dated and have seen women date and even marry is ridiculous. She get's a wonderful man and all she can complain about is him being a legit saint to her. Me and probably the judge wanted to beat the living tar outta her.
I've got a good NICE man in my life and I treat him like a king, because I know his worth. I don't have any sympathy for that woman and with her shitty attitude she will live a miserable life no questions asked.
Well to be honest there seems to be a lot more woman out there that look to take advantage of men and the government than honest and wholesome woman. Woman today are told that it's better to get a job and and be single. Rather than get married and raise a family. and if you do get married you should immediately divorce him if you are unhappy or feel like he's not making enough money to support you and buy you everything that you want.
Can't deny that one since that's probably half of the women in my family, but that doesn't mean that there still aren't good women out in the world and I choose to do better for myself and for my partner; I never wanted to be a stereotype lol.
Is it worth going through mountain's of shit to get to the one small pearl? Especially if each fake one that you find will leave you battered, bruised and scared?
In my opinion? Yep. Well worth it. It helps if you know how to look. Know what to look for. There are certain things that give away what a girl is like (also what a guy is like) Thus why I don't make a move/ even consider flirting with somebody unless I feel like they are what I'd be after (no, not sex. Partnership. get your dick out of the gutter)
I've been cheated on about 80% of my relationships (which, is sitting at a small 9 or so now I think. Cheating ranges from physical sex to emotional, etc. Mostly physical), But I still have a positive attitude towards it. I would much rather find somebody, settle down and have fun together, than be alone, doing nothing with my life. Not to say I would be doing nothing with my life if I was single (which I currently am.)
Basically, the world revolves around making mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes. You make it, then you learn from it. If you just give up, or don't even give it a try because you saw what
can happen from it, you'll be stuck doing the same boring things forever. Granted, I'm taking a break from dating for a while. Swore to myself (also did this last time, prior to dating my ex) that I wouldn't go out looking for a girl for a while, but if something too good to pass up came at me, I wouldn't say no (thus my ex. I got with her, because she was fucking awesome. Then we grew apart due to social differences. Ie her liking to go out and drink often, me liking to stay at home. We also moved in together waaay too soon)
Basically, shit happens. If you're not keen to take a risk, that's fine, but don't expect things to be too fun. Fun comes from taking risks, and you get places by making mistakes and learning from them.