WideEyedMan wrote...
without tarnishing their criminal record
Making a woman that's married or has a boyfriend fall for your dick because you're handsome or rich is also NTR and will not tarnish your record. You'd look like a homewrecker or asshole, but that's it.
People enjoy NTR from 6 different viewpoints:
1. Masochism - they enjoy identification with the person being stolen from
2. Sadism - they enjoy identification with the person who steals and from seeing someone (the victim and/or the target) in pain
3. Conquest - they enjoy identification with the person who steals and from taking what is someone else's "property" and making it their own
4. Manslut/Slut without fault - they enjoy identification with the person being stolen who enjoys the best sexual (or financial, emotional, psychological) experience in their life even when they don't want it
5. Feminism - No one owns anybody. The reader enjoys reading people being released from the shackles of patriarchal dominance (i.e. marriage or normal marriage). Basically, sexual liberation from common societal norms.
6. Third Party Preference - something similar to feminism, it is instead the inherent desire of people to read about fantasies or see it take form, things that normally do not occur in their lives, but in a way that won't hurt anyone. This is the same idea behind people who watch tv dramas, action films, and telenovelas.
I basically hijacked this one from someone else, but added several things to make it clearer to understand.