Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
It isn't the fact that I was looking at porn but rather that most/all of the argument I used to get her to believe I wasn't cheating on her was that I didn't find guys attractive (sort of a lie). And then she finds me looking at a vanilla; (which more or less proves I lied) So, its not really that I like straight porn but that I blatantly lied to her.
Time to do the following:
a) Start a new thread in LRR and get some actually helpful responses
b) Sit down and have a biiiig talk with your missus/ girlfriend.
To expand on B; Time to tell her the truth, tell her you lied about not finding men attractive, but you aren't cheating on her, and you're faithful to her.
That is, assuming you aren't cheating, and you are faithful.
I haven't read any other posts besides the op... I'm lazy.
Semi-goodguy Drifter