the feeling your right but everyone says your wrong.

has anyone felt like this before? I always feel like this when having a conversation with my dad it's like all my actions is all wrong always wrong like always like and why does everything I do wrong I think most parents think that there children are robots or pets that they need to do everything that they order or want. I'm not saying all parents are like that i just said MOST. sometimes it's really annoying when you ask your friends and then they'll say "as long as your happy on what your doing" then they say i'm a person who doesn't wanna lose on a argument it really ticks me off.

TL;DR
The flaws of democracy, in a nutshell.

Think about what your parents said.
Maybe they're trying to tell you something you refuse to accept.

If everyone says you're wrong, you probably are. Have you considered that? Have you also considered not giving a fuck about what people think of you and just get on with it?


Tip: Y'all need more full stops or commas to allow for pauses.

Edit:you're

Also, if you're in the same country as I do, assuming you are, then yeah, Pinoyland does that to you. Especially here when most us are too meek to voice an opinion and opt to turn away and be apathetic and any opinion against the majority is a giant taboo e.g. Religion + Goverment = :D, Anti-Religion= gtfo of our country

In short: we see the problems in everyday life and choose to not give a shit about it, try to deny things and they will fight you for that because they hate change, especially religious ones.

[size=1]Except the UP people ofc, fucking protestors clogging the streets[/h]

Butts

I think I see what you're getting at.

erryday.

There are two possible reason as to why you feel this.

Either a) the person you are arguing with is really stuck up in his belief or b) you are really stuck up in yours and fail to realize that you're wrong.

This happens all the time, people think they are right to the point where everything else is wrong, even facts that you can prove is for some reason wrong, it's how people work. Sometimes you have to sit down and think about what you're saying, think long and hard about every word you say and try to look from a factual(?) standpoint, is what you're saying truly right?

Let's say I believe that League of Legends is actually only 2 years old, give it the fact that I then "played in beta" and my account is only 2 years old. No matter how much fact you throw in my face, I won't believe you because according to me I was there. At some point, people go blind beyond reason because they are stuck up on it, they only see things from their own point of view and that is what makes debates with ignorant people really hard.

Trust me, I have tried to debate with a lot of ignorant people and it's literally impossible because they trick themself that even if I show fact, they are right and I am wrong.

WHAT NAH FUCK DAT SHIT I DO WHAT I WANT

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Always wrong when talking to dad? Nothing ever good enough? Sounds about right, that's just dad being dad!

Your parent's are your parents dude, can't change them, don't have to like them, optional on loving them. From what your friends have told you, sounds like the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Your getting pissed at something so small and insignificant when you could be fapping and playing videogames! Just keep calm and realize that wrong and right are just words and that you need to be open to what others say, even if you don't agree. Learn where to throw your two cents in as needed and just enjoy life from there since it's too small/short for waste.

Have a cookie, always makes me feel better! (^^)

I don't think parents ever think they are wrong, mine don't think they are at least. lol

I have felt like that but I usually get over it because you can't put the right answer into people's heads unwillingly.

Oh boy, do I feel that 'feel' whenever there's a group discussion that's based on opinions (especially if it is something like a social topic). I usually get barked at for being a cynic and that my opinion is wrong. That's just how society works - the opinion of the few is inferior to the opinion of the many (same goes for authority regarding the opinion of a grownup and a younger person). Luckily there's a remedy for that which I find quite effective - Dontgivfukcine. But that's just me and I highly recommend you to not take me as an example.
The simple fact is either evaluate the situation and have your own conclusion of what is right and stick to it or "If you can't beat em', join em'". If having your father's (or anyone else's for that matter) approval is that important, follow his advise. If it's sticking to your truth and it being recognized is what you're after...we'll that's a different battle.

Agreeing with everything Gravity said. Though I understand it is a lot harder to "not give a fuck" when that person is a parent. Especially if OP is somehow dependent upon them, financially or otherwise.

sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it

even if you are right, if you look like you're screaming and trying to shove it down their throats; then the manner makes it all wrong

like parents and older people, if you point out their mistakes; they start to shift the arguement on you being a disrespecful arrogant prick, not on what they did wrong. pointing to someone that they're wrong while maintaining proper decorum and 'respect' takes practice and skills

sounds cliche but life isn't fair...every arguement and debate differs.
but the one who is being calm and collected most of the time wins (except for some circumstances where one calls on bullshit and have a whole battallion to back him up, better ask help from 'higher ups' at this point).

time is on your side. just wait for karma to come to them and/or their mistakes will come and bite their asses back. nothing beats the feeling of saying to someone 'I told you so'

fight or flight... know when to forgo either one.

keep your cool, ignore, don't give a shit... in that order (if the situation calls for it)


TLDR; grow up!

Can't please your dad/family?

Boo Fucking Hoo

You're probably going to deal with that all your life.

I changed it so I can understand what you wrote because I think this is what you meant.

I guess if they don't want to listen to reason, you don't really have many options unless you're not above of forcing them the agree with you.(hopefully you are) If I were I'd just listen to thanielle, because life ain't fair most of the time.

>IB is now a corner for rants and venting
noooooooooooo