Welcome to the forums!
If you have a bit of a phobia of forums, I'd recommend not going to
Incoherent Babbling until you're comfortable (you aren't missing much to be honest).
And I'd be happy to answer your questions about forums via PM; I had some anxiety issues and had a very rough start using forums.
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Edit: You appear to be fitting in quite well)
2nd edit - I asked a bunch of questions (which you answered), but then I deleted them... And I don't feel like writing them again.