Haha - loved your post and welcome to Fakku.
In responce to some of the thing you wrote, I do feel sometimes a bit guilty of speeding so much time on a hentai site, but like Maholix said, Fakku is more than just a porn site. Its more of a community really, at least when you get into it. I mean I came here for the porn (I think we all did), but I stayed for the forums. People are friendly (IB is the exception to everything though) and happy to help.
Not only on top of discussing the latest anime episodes and manga chapters, as well as getting some newly translated doujinshi, there are also great Special Interest Forums. I got several of my now favourite bands recommended to me in the
Music forum, I got recommended several great TV-shows in the
Entertainment forum and the people in the
Computer and Technology are always great helps (they dont take kindly to fools though). I regularily enter contests in the
Food and Cooking forum and read other users work in the
Writing and Lemons forum (and occasionally adding some writings myself). And seeing as you like RPGs (good taste there I see), you should check out the relevant forums. But dont take my word for it, go out and explore it yourself and enjoy yourself :)