Ask me anything about being romanic

I find myself to be a hopelessly romantic person, and I wish to share my thought with everyone. I can not guarantee my advise will work but ask me anything, about romanticism.

Hmm, I like where this is going.
My first question is

What do you mean by hopelessly romantic? And why would you consider yourself so?

When I think of romanticism, not only do I think of the opposite or reasoning, but the state of being in love with love.

I might have been called a romantic by some quite some time ago. However, over time I lost substance as a person and basically became a douchebag. And I know it too. Which leads me to believe it's more of a naive belief.

Hit me up with some wisdom, bruh

Q: What do you mean by hopelessly romantic? And why would you consider yourself so?

A: While most people think Chivalry is dead, I for one still see it as alive and well I am what some would call the Southern Gentlemen. Though I may not seem like it on the net, IRL I am a modest person, and a gentlemen. I believe in the principle fact that men should show respect to women, but not to the point that they walk all over you. I'm the kind of guy who is likely to take a girl to a quiet Candle light dinner, and dancing, than to hooters and a movie. Sweep them off there feet, or whatever you want to call it.

Do you think people who lack this passion of yours are missing out on something?

This is a Yes and No question here, Yes hey are missing out on something that could ultimately become a big part of there life, and no, because there are just some people who are not meant to settle down. It really depends on how you look a i, I would believe that everyone here is over the age f 18, so I would say look at yourself now and where you want to be in 10 years, My self I see in a good career as an educator, my own little family, a nice little house, ect. While someone else would see themselves as a wild buck, a new girl each and every night.

We could all be dead in 10 years, and some of us certainly WILL be. That's not a point to any particular person, I just mean that, statisticlly, there are enough people around here that at least one will be dead of something in the next 10 years, wether cancer or speeding bus.

The whole how do you see yourself in 10 years question is designed to help people think about there future and decide upon what actions they need to take now.

Well, I base most of my actions on the likelyhood of being dead in 10 years.

and this affects your choices how? theres a difference between living in the now and being an idiot, many tend to confuse the 2. do you?

I'm a romantic too, not sure about the whole hooters and movie part.

I like the idea of lying in bed, having my love lay her head on my chest and listening to the wind outside. It's chilly out, cold but not so cold that two people together will be uncomfortable.

I try to avoid either. "living in the now" is a stupid concept mostly used by people with terminal diseases or old people who don't want to admit they are getting old.
And being and idiot, obviously, is idiotic.

I'm just more iterested in being interested.

ok then mister love guru.... tell me this

i have this girl that likes me but i don't like her because of one night in a club i said some compliments (nice ones) and she reacted by having one of her lad mates say that if i try it again he'll kill me

now this is where it gets interesting
a few weeks later she decides to say to me i really like you more than a "mate" but after that incident i don't want nothing to do with her ...

how do i get rid of her without hurting her feelings.... yeah im a huge softy at heart