Can someone teach me how to safely torrent and download jav?

Nothing is safe but 99.9% of torrents are virus free. Just scan the files with your anti-virus and/or malware bytes program. Utorrent has a built in scan so if it a known torrent hash with bad stuff it will stop an delete the file(s). Utorrent 3.2 and above is a bitcoin miner and a bad version that uses you to make them more money and info. 3.1 and below is best.

All you do is press the arrow on nyaa.se to dl the torrent file and if you haven't declick the controls it will auto load the hash file and dl the files. Since it's a public tracker then of course if the company making the porn could track who seeding the file aka sharing but they wouldn't or can't really do anything. Too much trouble for people who they can't profit on. Same with anime and manga unless it licensed by a western company. Rarely you get a letter for non english releases or even anime related stuff. American movies, music and programs sure.

http://www.oldapps.com/utorrent.php
Old versions of utorrent. Some private site disallows certain versions of utorrent. I have a special modified version of 2.2.1 which is the best version of utorrent.

i dont trust anything, so i download all my torrents to a seprate hard drive just to be a little safer

That's because the file you're downloading from that torrent hardly has any seeds.

That is an amazing idea.

I remember learning these kind of things the hard way.
Good times, good times.