Dere types

Which type of dere do you think suits you more in life? Also, you can state which type of dere would you like to have as a boyfriend/girlfriend if you were an anime character (or in real life).

Definitely dandere (which is one of the reasons why I like the internet...).

My personal preference as girlfriend if I were an Anime character would be someone like Albedo from Overlord, in real life it would heavy depend on her other character traits altough in theory deredere would be really nice, yandere would be really bad and tsundere/himedere would drive me nuts...

Dandere at first, but if I get too attached then I'm yandere. I've been avoiding romantic relationships since I found this out.

I don't know which of the deres would fit me. My behavior is inconsistent to fit one dere. As for girlfriend dere type, I'd go with kuudere. Seems like the relationship wouldn't be as stressful if my girlfriend were tsundere. Though I may be wrong. (shrug)

I'm a mix between a deredere and dandere with a little tsun depending on who I'm speaking to. Yandere would just be for the shit's and giggle and to watch people squirm when I'm in the sadist mood lol.

For my guy I think dere would be nice, but not to the point they're cheesy about it. Mainly appreciate guys that know what they want and can speak their mind. Not to the point their an asshole mind you, difference between honestly and just being a plain ole jackass lol. Also just kind and can care for themselves and others, but that applies to anyone, not just a guy for relationship purposes.

In a good way or bad?
I was a dandere too, but some hard hits from life turned me into a kuudere.

Nah, dude. Keep searching, surely there is a girl that loves your type out there somewhere.

Actually what is "deredere"? One definition I found explains it's a lazy type dere. Is this correct?

I would say deredere is a character who is always nice and lovey dovey towards you




Bad way, switching between cold attitude and affection or behaving like a spoiled princess are not character traits I can really appreciate... (And you don't want to drive me nuts the bad way...)



Yeah, life knows how to fuck us all....

Thing is, even if I do find someone that's accepting of it, I'd still be pretty disgusted with myself over it. While it would absolutely take a load off my mind, I'd still be very upset with myself over how I'd want them strictly to myself and nobody else, be paranoid over what they do, etc etc. I generally have enough self-control to avoid acting on any of that so it wouldn't affect them, but I know it's still there.

Sorry to turn this into a pity party. Just had to get that off my mind. ^^'

Dandere - shy/antisocial person who opens up to you over time
Kuudere - seemingly cold/cynical person (who opens up to you over time)
Himedere - behaves like a (spoiled) princess (but can be nice around the person he/she loves)
Deredere - sweet, lovey dovey

I think most of us here was dandere. I'm mostly dandere, or just a dandere without the dere? LOL

Isn't it hard to be dere when your dandere? I guess it was just me.

As for having a girlfriend, I guess I want a tsundere the most. I just like to be verbally abused or I guess I prefer a brutally honest girl. I don't like a girl that was a dere to the point that she's always sweet. Some trust issues for me, I assume.