From same topics on thehighroad.org
Is this a meeting of the He-Man Woman Haters Club?
If it is I have been happily married to my one and only woman for 32 years. It is a lot of give and take. Have a great dog too...Izzie.
I guess I don't qualify to join.
Instead, count your blessings because you're not a member.
I was falsely accused of DV by my mother and brother as retribution for a)not being in town when my father passed away and b) not being a part of my mother and brother manipulation of the rest of the family. I had no guns for a little over a year, being in the possession of a good friend.
Take a good look at your state's domestic violence and PFA order laws. They will scare you. HOw about an instant, albeit temporary, divorce from your wife based on her word alone. BTW, that split is 100/0 in her favor and could be that way for months. No guns, no custody, no visitation. You pay maintenance for her, child support on the kids and also all bills to keep a roof over their heads adn a vehicle even though you're outdoors.
Live in GF, same deal. Even if you own the house you might end up out of it.
All that until a judge has a hearing on whether or not to keep the order permanent for one year. THat hearing could take months.
So yeah, those who have been caught up in this have a bad taste in their mouths.
Far, far too much potential to get your dick caught in a bear trap. (Yeah, I'm turning this into an anti-relationships thread)