Morning Star wrote...
I really can't choose, I don't want my lover lying there like a lifeless corpse awaiting to receive sexual pleasure. Neither do I want my lover to be so aggressive that it becomes bother some... So I would assume a good dose of each .
I agree with Morning Star that I don't want a living breathing blow up doll to have sex with, I'd much rather have a girl who will do something as well.
As for the main topic question, I'm a giver. I make sure that the sex is pleasing for everyone involved, noone wants to go somewhere expecting to have fun and end up bored and disappointed right?