Pocru wrote...
woman raping men, more often than not, is caused because the woman wants to feel dominant. They dont really want the physical pleasure, they want to make the man feel humiliated, degraded, and less like a person, while making themselves stronger than the man. Its even that way with most man on women rape cases.
^---This.
Rape is
always about power, not sex. Also, while it may be a fantasy to some men be "raped" by a female, actual rape is never pleasant for the victim, really. I think it's necessary to draw a sharp line between domination play (where both partners are participating willingly) and rape, which is the all-out violation of person's will, plain and simple. There's this public misconception that rape only works with a penis and a vagina, but rape also works with other orifices, and objects, both ways - exactly because rape is about power and humiliation.
Females raping males is of course very much less common, especially among adults, than the other way around; but it definitely is real, predominantly in mothers abusing their male children. The dark figure is staggering, in no small part due to science only relatively recently discovering this field of research.
As for the "you can't rape a man, because he's willing if he gets it up" argument: Ignoring the fact (as outlined above) that rape is not necessarily about vaginal intercourse, there's also the possibility of
this or
that happening.
That is pretty much very untrue. anyone who's reasonable looking can easily get laid in today's world, especially women.
I disagree with the
especially women and
reasonable looking parts - I hear hookers/gigolos will even accept "unreasonable looking" customers.