How do i make a connection?
Do i have a chance of getting into relationship with her?
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How do I connect to this girl, taken directly from a post I made in
http://test.4chan.org/adv/res/24164.html#24205
Ill write it out here too i guess (C&V).
how do i further my connection with someone I know who I think likes me? I'm not even sure if she likes me either, but when i talk to her, her eyes glisten and she sorta blushes, same with me. I notice her laugh when i say things, made a crappy joke to test it and she still laughed. Help a bro out. She also struggles with things to say around me, but still attempts to talk to me so its not like Im creeping on her or anything, I reply but act like I would consider normal. Ask questions too, specifically.
-edit- also wondering how should i time this so i don't get trapt in dreaded friend-zone?
http://test.4chan.org/adv/res/24164.html#24205
Ill write it out here too i guess (C&V).
how do i further my connection with someone I know who I think likes me? I'm not even sure if she likes me either, but when i talk to her, her eyes glisten and she sorta blushes, same with me. I notice her laugh when i say things, made a crappy joke to test it and she still laughed. Help a bro out. She also struggles with things to say around me, but still attempts to talk to me so its not like Im creeping on her or anything, I reply but act like I would consider normal. Ask questions too, specifically.
-edit- also wondering how should i time this so i don't get trapt in dreaded friend-zone?
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Well im gonna say yes
1.She blushes
2.She laughs
3.She tries to talk to you
4.Her eyes glisten (or so you think)
5.Nothin to lose...
How to connect with her? i dunno.
1.She blushes
2.She laughs
3.She tries to talk to you
4.Her eyes glisten (or so you think)
5.Nothin to lose...
How to connect with her? i dunno.
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Kuri
Lover of Dark and Tan
Well first of all don't rush it. Nothing good ever comes just by rushing things. You say that she sorta blushes around you right? Im guessing she has feelings for you,but then again thats me talking. You also said that you make her laugh,thats good! Make her feel comfortable around you to the point that she doesn't have to hesitate when she talks to you, cause if she's relax then you are.If you just recently met her take it slow, get to know her more, cause all relatioships start with trust right? If shes a friend you knew for awhile now,over the time you guys were friends up to now she should be have a foundation of feelings of you if you went in the right directions. To me your situation is in the green, if you still aren't sure of yourself just be you...don't become the guy that nobody wants/needs.
I hope this helps you browsing-san^-^. I really do.
I hope this helps you browsing-san^-^. I really do.
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Kuri wrote...
Spoiler:
I knew her for a year, didn't talk much to her though yet she talked to me time to time. if that changes your view, now I'm in 2 of her classes and sit next to her in both, hell yeah! Good info, thanks!
Oh and DeathPlox, her eyes were like diamonds it was so amazing, her eyes are brown and no lights above us were moving so something was up. Ill mention it to her if another chance comes by, maybe she'll take it well.
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Also id like to add, she admitted being embarrassed to me, about something small and stupid that doesn't even matter, Don't know what it means or what should it mean, but is that also a sign?
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If you like her and have a strong suspicion that she likes you as well then you have nothing to lose. You said that you've known her for a year and if you haven't done anything utterly stupid inside that year then she should have no negative feelings toward you. You're talking to her and she's laughing and talking back. I would say that you have a pretty good chance and you're sitting with her for two classes so use that time to build up trust. You should get to know her better.
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NOTE: do girls normally blush in front of guys they don't like? Answer: nope. well unless the guy is naked or she is wearing something embarrassing or she has some trouble talking to men.
well anyway, i say that you should just give it a shot. work it out slowly, build up trust, and maybe she'll confess first ;3 become a man she can count on... a manly good man.. lol XD
*edit*
friend zone is scary =.= what i would do is try to show her i like her when some other dude starts getting close to her. but nothing like suddenly kissing her, that would freak her out... i'd do something like talking to her about being jealous etc etc. then she would blush and then i would say that i like her... (just playing it out in my mind, that result, may or may not happen)
well anyway, i say that you should just give it a shot. work it out slowly, build up trust, and maybe she'll confess first ;3 become a man she can count on... a manly good man.. lol XD
*edit*
friend zone is scary =.= what i would do is try to show her i like her when some other dude starts getting close to her. but nothing like suddenly kissing her, that would freak her out... i'd do something like talking to her about being jealous etc etc. then she would blush and then i would say that i like her... (just playing it out in my mind, that result, may or may not happen)
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Act now before you are doomed to the friend zone. If you don't make sexual tension (like teasing and acting manly and playful touches - NOT barry white sexual tension) then she wont be attracted to you. Dont be afraid of her! Make a move, like just ask her to someplace of entertainment and start making physical contact. A slight touch on the arm, a hand on the shoulder... yada yada. If you wait too long you'll just be that nice guy she knows instead of a lover. Man up buddy and take the lead - I hate it when guys don't take the lead!
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thanks guys so much, also would you consider these minus points?
Was having a bad day said these things. someone told me nice shoes, and i said hell no i got these at spic-mart
she complimented me on stuff I don't remember saying thanks, lol, but i said something.
i always get to class late.
Someone in my class said something looked like a penis on my folder my reply was along the lines of "i didn't even consider that, i don't think like that, i dont have a childs brain"
Was having a bad day said these things. someone told me nice shoes, and i said hell no i got these at spic-mart
she complimented me on stuff I don't remember saying thanks, lol, but i said something.
i always get to class late.
Someone in my class said something looked like a penis on my folder my reply was along the lines of "i didn't even consider that, i don't think like that, i dont have a childs brain"