How many times have you been rejected or rejected someone?

well it could be a direct rejection or non-direct(EX:you find out later that he/she started to date someone else, he/she liked someone else, etc)

for me, i guess i've been rejected about... oh... um... 5 times?
1st time-he liked my best friend
2nd time-he liked my best friend
3rd time-he liked someone else
4th time-he flat out rejected me
5th time-he liked someone else

i've rejected... 4 guys? all in the same ways: said i wasn't interested in him or tried to avoid talking to them...(what a horrible way, i know... TT^TT but i don't know how to deal with that stuff.. i'm not that experienced...)
EX:
guy:zeph uh...
zeph: yeah?
guy: do you.. um.. want to go out?
zeph: hmm? where?
guy: nevermind..
(that did happen though... it was on accident though *_* i probably would have said yes if i knew what he meant was dating.. i'm stupid... i know...i didn't know until my best friend told me he liked me...*facepalm* that's so lame... -_-")

so to sum it all up, i haven't dated... not even once.. TT^TT... yes i know... i am the geek of the universe...

Hmmm...it for me, it's something like this...

When I was 12...I fell for a girl. But that time I'm kinda scared so...I bottled it up til' I'm 15. I confessed...and was slapped real hard. Rejected...I moved on.

Then six month later...I saw a girl carrying books in my school. I wondered why I never saw her before because the uniform means she's the same year as me. Whatever. Anyway...she looks cool, and very cute too. So that time I thought I just gotta make that girl mine....

Ok, it turned out that she's not cool at all...unless you think an autistic girls are cool. But I didn't care...I wanted her. But hell...making her open herself up to me was a real pain...only after a year she agreed to be my girlfriend.

All was well but...I guess nature has its cruel parts. Due to an accident....she died crushed by a lorry, in an attempt to save me. I was overwhelmed with guilt...it took me 2 months to stop crying every night. *blushes*

Then...the girl that rejected me confessed to me. I had nothing against her but...I don't think I was prepared for a relationship so I tried to reject her politely. But then she just had to go and insult my late ex...and that got me. I returned the slap from back then...she lost 2 teeth.

Well...that's about it. I'm still single now....lol.

Oh so that was why you slapped her! OMG that wraps up the story! !!!!

i was suspended for 3 days because of that...lol. but i was satisfied so it's ok...

rejected 3
1st liked my friend
2nd beat up her brother in the past
3rd didn't like the way I looked (I dressed very thuggish back then...still do somewhat now)

I don't usually make the first move and I'm not usually ever looking.

I rejected 1
I'm 22 and she was 14 (I ain't playing that game)

I am a pretty shy person so i normaly don't go for the first step.

Got my guts together some weeks ago and asked a girl i really like if she'd like to go out with me.
She said yes, i tried my best, after that she acted strange and went with the :" You are very nice, good to have you as a friend - line..."

After that i tried to tell her i like her more than a friend and she said she only wants to stay friends....
Pretty messed up on that evening for getting massivly drunk but yeah we stayed friends...

So my rejection history would be:

1....said she doesn't like the way I look
2....was into someone else
3....wanted to stay friends

Well like you Zeph i am a geek....cause this makes Real Dates = Zero

Well lets just keep up^^

Wasn't sure to post this one...

Rejected 1

For the fact it was a guy and i don't swing this way...

But i felt a little honored^^

Never have rejected, have been rejected once. Also have tried only once. She rejected because she already had a boyfriend, which I knew, but I just wanted to get the message across that I really did have feelings for her.

Been rejected too many times to keep count, directly and indirectly. :lol:

There was one incident with a chick from an anime girl I went to. She seemed to like me, too, so one day, I told her that I liked her, and she just said, "Ah, thanks," like I had said I liked her shoes or something. That was weird. But she was kind of weird. Whenever anything romantic or sexual came up, she acted like she didn't hear or see it. I guess she was repressed.

Holy crap that seems like a story you would see in a movie or a book. But irl... damn. :\

Never been rejected here. Confessed once and was able to nail it (I'm still with her).

Congratulations boy.

I was rejected by neko-chan in highschool. TT^TT

We finally got together in college. PERSVERANCE!!!

When you reach my age the rejections are far too many to count. They usually end it quickly with one of two related excuses: "I'm engaged," or "I'm living with someone." It's quick, it's easy, it's almost like saying "Aw, you're too late. Bye bye!" And, most of all, it works... at least on me it does. I don't get involved with women who are already involved with someone else. Been down that road before and it ain't pretty.

I've only been on the giving end of rejection... three times? Each time was a little different. Two of them were minor incidents where she was mildly interested, I wasn't remotely. The other one I ended before she started getting ideas that I was going to "rescue" her from her situation.

Rejection isn't fun no matter what end you're on. Receiving it is humiliating, humbling, and sometimes heartbreaking depending on how involved you were. Giving it is embarrassing, awkward, and often sickens you to yourself depending on how its taken. I try to avoid both if I can.

I accidentally rejected this one girl in a summer school class. I was talking to myself about how hungry I was and then she overheard me and offered my some of her lunch. It was awesome. Anyways we talked for awhile and then she asked if i wanted to go and study with her. I said, "why would I want to waste my time studying? This class is dumb ass easy."

And that pretty much ended that. In my defense I really did not know that "studying" had some sort of secret meaning to it.

*high fives* geeks who've never dated unite! <--- that line kind of hurt a little but... still ^_^;

lol. The way you put it sounds weird somehow...




oh my....really? well, it's not a very happy story anyway...lol. now i have to go through the trouble of falling with someone if i want a girlfriend...and i don't see it happening soon. pity me....8)

Yeah, but i'd write it like that: "Drink up, fellow lonely never dated geeks of this world! Let us all get drunk till we pass out and live another dateless day, spending 24/7 on FAKKU (God bless this site)."

Well i wonder if "hi there!" "Yo?" " I am drunk you are drunk, wanna make out?" "sure if you shower first" counts as a date..? if so i had some^^

Been rejected just once. But I was naive enough at the time(HS Jr) to think that 'I'm not in a good place for a relationship right now' was genuine, and later, I was like "Oh, how nice of her to do it like that" [100% sarcasm free].

Never rejected by someone... Coz I'm a geek and too lazy to ask someone for a date... :P
However, I've rejected 2 girls...
First one when I was in junior high school.
And the second one when I was in the first semester in college.
They didn't know there's a childhood friend who always watch over me and she's quite annoying. So, I rejected them to prevent a confrontation between her and them... -__-

Though I have went out with her for several times, I didn't count any single of them as a date. Coz our status is still single and we never confess our feeling. A bit weird but that's for real... LOL... ^_^

I honestly only been rejected once =/ but I wasn't really interested in him so I can't say I was trying that hard.

I've never been rejected, never!
I've only had one girlfriend and I'm still with her!
Since high school actually!

Sorry if it sounds like I'm bragging. =)