How to approach 2nd time?

jealousy card.

go steady with someone else and have lots of fun with her (but don't make a it a serious thing..just a casual fling).

and as her "friend", you can talk about it with her.

then...have it not go well...and act heart broken.

talk to he about it and talk about how it wasn't as fun as being with her.

voila. good luck findin the girl to be the bait though, just be careful not to fall for the bait girl too.

thats a really good way..not honest..but it works better than playin fair and the standard art of seduction won't work because she's already been through it with you.

ugh..i finally get somebody to rep me and its negative...

wat luck...the action i'm recommending to you is not to assure you success (nothing will give you 100% chance of success). It is your best chance given the cercumstance.

who's to not say as soon as you get back together you get bored and want out again?

if she thinks "so what"...she's jealous..i'd be worried if she didn't react at all.

in anycase...you'll have to think about all the possible contingences for urself...and think up ways to narrow things down to your advantage.

theres no man more pathetic than a guy asking help in the forums for EVERY problem that comes his way.

for this time i'll get you started.

how does a person get jealous. envy is the basis of an inferiority complex. So to get someone jealous, you'll need to go out with someone with superior assets (personal, social, physical..all 3 is ideal)

now the main risk is that she'll try to mirror you. you will have to stay close to her as a friend while going steady with ur girl friend. Like having a gf and a best friend...you prioritise them both equally.

At this point the gf will likely get jealous...why? ur both exes and ur hanging with her an equal amount of times than with ur gf...this will suggest cheating...just keep stressing that you're both close friends...soon the gf will break it off..and the plan is in motion...come to ur best friend for consolation and suggest a wanting for the "good old days"

things that might get in the way? you fking up...well..you'll have to go with ur iniative and lower yur standards of your goal-your friendship is at stake..fk..your goal of getting her back..try to keep her ur friend. (that way you can always restart later)

her getting a bf-just try to keep with the plan.....and the bf will get jealous the same way ur gf will be...

god i'm ebil for condoning something so devious..oh well..just dun fk up..

hence why i stressed on how detailed you should be on how you'll need to go about it.