i reached towards the sky...
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hey guys...
ever since the cousin incident has been resolved and also the car faceoff, im back on track. but theres still this tiny thing that bothers me a bit...
see i know a girl from my highschool whom i've noticed is when i was still a senior and she a junior, she would act very differently from she used to (from very active to shy) and cling to me. one of my d-crew guys had a thing for her but she doesnt like him. then came last week when she confessed to me when i was still in the hospital and i said i would think of it, then my friend confessed to her but to no avail. he still doesnt know what she said to me and even asked, "hey do you know this girl? can ya help me out zeke? you know i loved her and confessed, so please help me?".... now i am at a stranglehold....
WHAT DO Y'ALL THINK I SHOULD DO? Accept the confession? help him? or what? as the title said....
I REACH TOWARDS THE SKY...
ever since the cousin incident has been resolved and also the car faceoff, im back on track. but theres still this tiny thing that bothers me a bit...
see i know a girl from my highschool whom i've noticed is when i was still a senior and she a junior, she would act very differently from she used to (from very active to shy) and cling to me. one of my d-crew guys had a thing for her but she doesnt like him. then came last week when she confessed to me when i was still in the hospital and i said i would think of it, then my friend confessed to her but to no avail. he still doesnt know what she said to me and even asked, "hey do you know this girl? can ya help me out zeke? you know i loved her and confessed, so please help me?".... now i am at a stranglehold....
WHAT DO Y'ALL THINK I SHOULD DO? Accept the confession? help him? or what? as the title said....
I REACH TOWARDS THE SKY...
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zeKer_pencil wrote...
hey guys...ever since the cousin incident has been resolved and also the car faceoff, im back on track. but theres still this tiny thing that bothers me a bit...
see i know a girl from my highschool whom i've noticed is when i was still a senior and she a junior, she would act very differently from she used to (from very active to shy) and cling to me. one of my d-crew guys had a thing for her but she doesnt like him. then came last week when she confessed to me when i was still in the hospital and i said i would think of it, then my friend confessed to her but to no avail. he still doesnt know what she said to me and even asked, "hey do you know this girl? can ya help me out zeke? you know i loved her and confessed, so please help me?".... now i am at a stranglehold....
WHAT DO Y'ALL THINK I SHOULD DO? Accept the confession? help him? or what? as the title said....
I REACH TOWARDS THE SKY...
all's fair in love and war...
if your friend can't take being upstaged...he's not much of a friend but making an enemy of someone is never ideal huh...
it purely depends on you...fk wat other think...first start with do you have feelings for her at all?
if not, then its simple...don't get urself involved and try to steer ur friend away from the stalker zone, just to aboid embarrassment on his part.
if yus, well go for it...tell ur friend you like her too and she confessed to you.
rest is to see if he's a man or a whiny child thats gonna go into a tantrum over another kid getting his wanted toy (its blatantly wat he's after and likely you as well-hell its likely her too, bet you she knows very little about the real you)
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
Azreli wrote...
all's fair in love and war...
while i don't feel comfortable with this quote, it's true...so just accept it. about you case zeke, it really depends on you...to accept that girl or not. but one thing i'd recommend is that if you decide to reject her feelings, try not to recommend your friend to her directly...do it as subtle as possible. think about how must a feel to be "channeled" to other man right after being rejected, and by the one who rejects her no less...dunno, this may not apply to all girls, but at least i know a girl who sulked to no end because of such experience.
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mibuchiha wrote...
Azreli wrote...
all's fair in love and war...
while i don't feel comfortable with this quote, it's true...so just accept it. about you case zeke, it really depends on you...to accept that girl or not. but one thing i'd recommend is that if you decide to reject her feelings, try not to recommend your friend to her directly...do it as subtle as possible. think about how must a feel to be "channeled" to other man right after being rejected, and by the one who rejects her no less...dunno, this may not apply to all girls, but at least i know a girl who sulked to no end because of such experience.
hence y i didn't even mention the recommendation method and only said that ur friend doesn't go into the stalker zone. otherwise, its none of ur business and makin it your business is pointless
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
balls, that's your brother down in the trenches, don't drop a grenade on him for something you weren't interested in before... had you told me you loved the girls as well then I would say go for it but as it stands you seem to barely know of her existence. Tell him what really happened (that she confessed) but tell him that you wont see her and that you cant really help him.
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Like what Waar said, but I think you don't really have the hots for this girl. Assuming that's the case, I think you should tell your friend the truth no matter how harsh it is, and tell her what you think as well. If you don't clear this up, yall going to face some drama ahead of you that you don't want while healing. I can't say anything about your friend's unrequited feelings, but he's gonna have to know why, and it has to come from your mouth with open arms. (figuratively, you know what I mean)
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
g-money wrote...
and it has to come from your mouth with open arms. (figuratively, you know what I mean)he means while you're blowing him.... homo
haha I jest, or do I?
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
Azreli wrote...
so far we've all said the same thing...so only one set of options is only open to you
or he could like... not follow the advice the series of tubes and wires are giving him and follow his own path... whatev.
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well she treats me like a big brother (though her older sister was in my batch of graduates) and l also look to her as a younger sister... she knows what i did to him and what i can do but yet she still clings to me despite the many times i make a bad image to her that im a delinquent in her eyes... but damn it... this is starting to go sour fast... i keep sticking them both together but it seem she wants to stick to me... that guys a real jack the ripper in our school... if he knew what is what, then i would be endangering the girl, the other d-crew and myself if hes so pissed off... to top it off, right now im still recovering from the car faceoff and im less effective when im still bound to the chain of pain...
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zeKer_pencil wrote...
well she treats me like a big brother (though her older sister was in my batch of graduates) and l also look to her as a younger sister... she knows what i did to him and what i can do but yet she still clings to me despite the many times i make a bad image to her that im a delinquent in her eyes... but damn it... this is starting to go sour fast... i keep sticking them both together but it seem she wants to stick to me... that guys a real jack the ripper in our school... if he knew what is what, then i would be endangering the girl, the other d-crew and myself if hes so pissed off... to top it off, right now im still recovering from the car faceoff and im less effective when im still bound to the chain of pain...hmmm...then if its a lose lose situation...
take wat you can...lol i would do that beccause i'm strong enough to repel common thugs in a school enviroment through social and psycological warfare...me being able to fight helps too.
hmmm tough situation indeebs (since you come off as dhittin bricks in the prospect of fighting)...but if she's going to cling, then stay friends to keep her close and safe...while you keep that hound dog on a leash. tho how i do this would be different to urs (all his allies, i'd bring to my side to cut him off from tryin to do anything rash).
but if you want a simple answer-just tell her to bugger off. its just a crush...if you go out with her..theres no promises of her feelings remaining stable. leaving with a chick that doesn't like you and a buncha thugs that make it obvious that they can't get any...
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zeKer_pencil wrote...
well she treats me like a big brother (though her older sister was in my batch of graduates) and l also look to her as a younger sister... she knows what i did to him and what i can do but yet she still clings to me despite the many times i make a bad image to her that im a delinquent in her eyes... but damn it... this is starting to go sour fast... i keep sticking them both together but it seem she wants to stick to me... that guys a real jack the ripper in our school... if he knew what is what, then i would be endangering the girl, the other d-crew and myself if hes so pissed off... to top it off, right now im still recovering from the car faceoff and im less effective when im still bound to the chain of pain...Look, either way he's going to have to know the truth, and being a Jack the Ripper doesn't cut it. Imagine him knowing the truth later than now. His jealously and anger would be that much more worse. And if he really can't control himself and hurt injured people, can you consider that person a friend, a brother? Tell it to him straight, and if he's your pal, he'll understand.
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g-money wrote...
zeKer_pencil wrote...
well she treats me like a big brother (though her older sister was in my batch of graduates) and l also look to her as a younger sister... she knows what i did to him and what i can do but yet she still clings to me despite the many times i make a bad image to her that im a delinquent in her eyes... but damn it... this is starting to go sour fast... i keep sticking them both together but it seem she wants to stick to me... that guys a real jack the ripper in our school... if he knew what is what, then i would be endangering the girl, the other d-crew and myself if hes so pissed off... to top it off, right now im still recovering from the car faceoff and im less effective when im still bound to the chain of pain...Look, either way he's going to have to know the truth, and being a Jack the Ripper doesn't cut it. Imagine him knowing the truth later than now. His jealously and anger would be that much more worse. And if he really can't control himself and hurt injured people, can you consider that person a friend, a brother? Tell it to him straight, and if he's your pal, he'll understand.
truth be told such ppl are beneath me. but ppl do befriend them for protection and self preservation (one can't attack a friend after all)
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yeah g-money i'll try... when we first met, he was an arrogant S.o.B. who likes to piss people off. challenged me to a fight at lunchtime and i put him in his place... since then we became friends... thats his story. as for the girl, i knew her a bit longer than him because when i was a sophomore, we accidentally met in the halls. found out then that she was the younger sis of one of my girl friends.
we tried leashing that dog but damn we were TOO merciful to limit him
we tried leashing that dog but damn we were TOO merciful to limit him
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SHIT! he wont freakin let go and the girl is starting to move seductively to me! oh shit! im in deep shit now...
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It's time to bring out the heavy artillery: a big fat "NO" should suffice.
Seriously, you have to draw line somewhere, and if now isn't the time, you'll never find the time. Kinda makes me wonder if the girl has some sort of ulterior motive... unlikely but possible. And you seem to have more than a fair share's worth of girl trouble.
Seriously, you have to draw line somewhere, and if now isn't the time, you'll never find the time. Kinda makes me wonder if the girl has some sort of ulterior motive... unlikely but possible. And you seem to have more than a fair share's worth of girl trouble.