evrythingburns wrote...
I know plenty of "sluts". One of them used to be my best friend for nearly seven years. Now, she's been with at least five different guys in the last six months. The thing is, the sluts I know have one flaw in common: they don't love themselves. I think that's a quality of many people we consider slutty. They have troubling loving themselves so they kind anyone and everyone who will "love" them, when really, the person they're sleeping with couldn't care less.
Tons of people, especially younger people, need to step back from the idea that having a boy/girlfriend is so important. I mean, it is, in the end, because everyone wants to be loved and end up with someone, but you're not going to die if you're still a single virgin when you turn 18, or 25 or whatever. What's more important is that when you're in a relationship, it lasts. And that requires love on both parts. Another person can't love you if you don't love you! It just doesn't work.
Usually a result of childhood abuse. You know, daddy touched them too much, or they had a wierd uncle and weren't smart enough to stay the fuck away from him.
It's all very sad.
Remember folks, sluts are people too. So don't beat them.