Need some advise from my fellow fakku users..

Hey everyone i have a problem and i hope someone can give me some advise to make me feel a bit better..

i have a girlfriend for the past 5 months, she wasnt really the type i would normally fall for but i did anyway.

it was great in the beginning but now i'm kinda bored with it, and i'm not really in love anymore, i never had this so quickly before =/

when i'm with her i dont have anything to talk about,
i even hang out with her brothers more then with her..

so i want to break up, but i dont know how to, cause i only broke up once before with someone and that person really deserved it.

i know she is going to break down when i break up with her, so what should do? and how?

DO it. Say you want to break up and tell her why. If she cries, comfort her.

Either find something to get you interested again, which is unlikely. Or break up with her.

When you get bored this quickly I suppose you weren't REALLY in love, but just puppy love or something alike. It'll be sad for her but you can't keep yanking her chain.

That's because the first few months of 'excitement' is gone. This happens for a lot of couples after they've been with each other for a while. You just have to get out of the rut. If you do something everyday [For example, if you two always have lunch then hang out at your house] yeah, it'll get really boring. Find something else to do. Go bake together, play video games, exercise together, etc. There's tons of stuff to do.

If you're not interested in her, it's a different story. Breaking up is always hard, you have to make the reason clear. Tell her something along the lines of, the relationship being great but you just don't feel the same way that you used to.

Good luck.

What Rayne said. And what Granth said.
For some couples is easier to go from limerence to routine. For some it's harder. And for some it's impossible, because there never really was more than limerence. Your case awfully sounds like the latter, but I'm not too fond of remote diagnostics. You have to figure that part out on your own, I'm afraid.

If you do decide that there's nothing more to give or gain, a down-home country mix of honesty and sensitivity will sit best, for, as Granth said, leading her on is more cruel than coming clean.

yep

i say you should do what Rayne said or if u wnna break up with her because that didn't work u could say what i said once "i am gay" that always works, sure if shes not part of your social cirlce

LAWL.

Obviously you werent in love, Get it right.
Every relationship has the beginning monthly trials of bliss.
It fades.

Thats why they call a relationship work.
Just be straight up and tell her that its not what you thought it would be, And its not working for you anymore.
Sure she might break down but it happens.

Thanks for the help everyone, and yeah i think i wasnt really in love..
but it isnt just that, for some reason she changed too, it's like she didnt dare to show her true self, the person she pretended to be was cool, i think i liked that and not the real her..

i'm gonna go see her tomorrow and tell her, i'm really scared tho...

Ugh. Hidoi yo.

Well, I really want to say you should tell her about this directly, not about breaking up, but about your dissatisfaction. Then depending on her answer you could try to work it out, or end it all. But it seems like you're set on breaking up, so whatever.

If she truly loves you, sad for her. Tell her I said that.