HentaiElder wrote...
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About the "grow up" thing, I hope you didn't take that personally, though it seemed like you did. I had zero bad intention.
1. Yeah, I know it's none of my business.
2. Yeah, but intervening can result in a better ending.
3. Well, I don't intend on making the situation worse.
Believe it or not, I actually think Waar and Angelus are pretty cool individuals. Both of them are users that, overall, I like. As a result, I rather not have it go on. Two reasons:
One: By letting it go on people will eventually start to take sides.
You did say: "I support Waar's position"
When people take sides it leads to separation and can pretty much end up with one group versus another group. A civil war. (I'm pretty sure it wouldn't reach a level that intense, but it does happen).
Two: It's somewhat ridiculous. I'd hate to watch one user tear down another user through words. (it can happen) And even if it isn't that intense, someone can be mentally upset and bothered by words. Did you read the thread about Angelus and his manager? His manager said some stuff that offended Angelus and it seemed to become a problem.
Similar things can happen here. That's why I posted what I did.
=| I know I wouldn't like it if I had someone insulting me.
But alright, if you really think I'm intervening to feel better about myself, then okay. [insert cookie monster image]
I admit that I probably did offend you with the grow up thing, but nothing I say should be taken seriously enough to have too negative an effect. And no need for an apology, it's cool.
@Waar: Lol, thank you Waar. I appreciate your words. ._. If I can say so myself, they're true.
Yeah, I guess I did, as I have been walking the tight rope lately with college and deadlines for work coming up. I'm really sorry 'bout that. It wasn't really directed at you either. It was directed and other's that I've seen ALL over, and not just on Fakku and it doesn't even have to apply to arguments either (I'm talking about enviromentalists and the like) but I guess I just spilled... >_>
As for number 2. It usually does not lead to a better ending. I have seen this happen all over and usually the 2 that have been in the argument never resolved the issue and the issue usually pops up again and again in another dispute they have because they won't get along. I'm not saying things never turn out bad all the time if an intervention happens, I just see the situation carrying on regardless. I just see that there is a chance for a resolve for an issue if the argument goes on and the fire burns itself out.
For your Point One.
I supported Waar's position before he even brought it up which I'll answer at the end of this post.
Yes it does happen unfortunately, but these are issues that are already in the hearts of the people that take sides and I prefer to see what the people think rather than keeping a dirty dark secret to not cause a "war". But I guess some think otherwise. Also, trying to stop an argument rarely works and most of the time it even draws the person who is trying to stop the argument into the very thing they were trying to stop which creates an even bigger Side vs. Side.
Point 2.
Yeah it can get down right ridiculous and yes people can bring each other down. But if an argument from the internet can really bring someone down that much, then they're going to have a lot of issues in the real world and probably shouldn't be on any online communities as it is highly likely you'll probably get into at least one fight if you're online a lot.
As I said, I wasn't thinking properly and probably took that statement a little too seriously, and even if an apology is not necissary, I'll apologize again since I know your a cool guy and I would hate for us to be on bad terms. :)
Now for Angelus.
If you want me to spit it out, then I will. I do agree with Waar when he thinks it's a bit excessive when a person has to post 4 or more images of themselves on just one page. That's all.