Groomed. That is all I ask for.
On myself, I don't do jack there unless I have a reason to (bikini season, in a relationship, itchiness) because IMO why bother otherwise? Like giz said, it came with the package and it serves a function so I'll keep it as-is.
On either sex, I prefer just enough "land-/manscaping" so it doesn't make my nose itch if I'm getting busy down there.
I find it
hilarious when people go to town on styling it (e.g. shaved in the shape of a heart, checkers, dyed, etc.).
And on the note of personal grooming, have
an article by Violet Blue on shaving pubic regions (for both sexes).