deadbydelilah wrote...
i just cant get with this idea dude. the phrase "IDEALIZED FANTASY PEDOPHILIA" IS NOT something that should thrown around.
yeah your right this is fantasy. porn in general is usually an exageration, but what does it for most people is the IDEA FOR IT. in BDSM people enjoy the control of another person (or lack there of depending on what end your on). in roleplay people like the IDEA of doing something they probably would never be able to do. (like that episode of south park where that guy fucked his wife dressed like the UPS man) with lolis people enjoy the idea of fucking kids.
IM probably going to get so much shit for this since im on a anime related forum but lolis just something i cant get with.
Nah, you won't get feces for it. At least not from me. I won't even downvote your posts since you're civil and reasonable about your views.
But you're actually right on about something there: In BDSM people enjoy the control of another person. But it's actually, again, the
fantasy of control they enjoy because they aren't in total control (assuming they doing it correct and not the 50 Shades of Grey style) that's why there's savewords whenever someone goes too far.
I can understand why you are appaled by the idea of it. That's a natural reaction. As a heterosexual person I'm also somewhat squicked out by homosexual sex, which probably resulted in some comments I wish I never made during my younger years. But I've grown.
Basically, the only way you could convince me that lolicon stuff is per se bad is if you showed me sufficiant factual, scientifically confirmed evidence that consuming lolicon media does indeed make the consumer abuse children.
Since we're at that, here's some untrue myths about real life child abuse:
Stranger danger: Over 90% of actual child abuse is carried out by sonmeone close to the child who is trusted by the child and their family.
Child abusers are pedophiles: Only a small amount actually are. Most are attracted to both adult woman and children. A lot target children as a substitute for adult women since children are easier to manipulate.
Sexual attraction to children is rare: It's much more common than you'd think. Studies are rare since theres an obvious stigma and few people would be willing to admit that they are attracted to children. I have seen studies and estimates that go all the way from 3% of adult males to 30%. However, most of them are simply decent people who know it would be wrong to act on those urges, just as most people who are attracted to adult females know it would be wrong to rape.
Let all that sink in for a bit.
BTW, I live in a country were loli and shota is perfectly legal (if probably frowned upon) while real child pornography is obviously very illegal as it should be.