rubhereforluck wrote...
Anyway, the whole thing made me wonder, has anyone ever run into an ex, or even a friend or relative, that they have not seen in years to find out that they have changed drastically?
Ex, no.
Friends and relatives, tons.
One of my old friends from school lost his parents under the tractor when he was a teenager. He dropped out of school, and took over the farm,
alone. Last time I saw him, aged 25, he looked like 40 - greying hair, the bags under his eyes looked like they had developed bags of their own, and so on.
Also, several of my former friends are now heavy-duty alcoholics, and totally destroyed, and I can't even bring myself to pity them. :l
I just feel mildly disgusted when I encounter them and they try to strike up a conversation whilst being
marinated in cheap vodka.