Nekohime wrote...
drfeathers wrote...
Probably going to buy more lube tomorrow... I've been using tons of it on Skype lately >.>
Still need a new toy that doesn't make me come so quickly! Hehe...
Anyone know of a good lube that desensitizes, too? I want to be able to plow my toy on cam without blowing my load in 5 seconds :/
Mmm, there are lubes with a small amount of benzocaine in them, like the Durex desensitizing lube. Not sure if it's safe with toys, but I think that if it's condom-safe, you can use it on your toy as well. These types of lubes tend to have a thinner consistency though, so they don't last as long as other types of lube. You can also try practicing with the toy to build up your tolerance to it.
As for practice, I've had the toy for more than two years and it's still just too intense. It was really nice to have when I was on a med that made it nearly impossible to orgasm with just my hands but I have to get off two or three times before I can have a decent session with the fleshlight now. I can edge for hours with my hands, so I'm used to stop-and-go and controlling my orgasm, but I'm pretty much just too sensitive to thrust more than once or twice without stopping for 10-15 seconds when it comes to my fleshlight.
My long distance gf really likes watching me use the toy though, so I'll look into those condoms. Thanks :).