shared stash?

i always got the "what do you need porn for when you have me" trip. best answer i ever came up with was, "it's only for when you aren't here and i'm desprate". it only worked with one GF, and she still made me get rid of most of it.

I shared lotsa stuff with my ex. Well, I almost didn't use hers at all though, because she liked stuff that I just won't understand why...

Like?

I simply don't tell my girlfriends that I watch porn, they know all men do that.. xD

@qua: rape, yaoi and stuff...

and when I asked her what's so awesome about rape, she just gave me a weird answer...

Never once did I share my interests in hentai with my boyfriends.

That's all the past though. =P

In a way we do like (or rather, dislike) the same things, as we're both terribly bored by porn and quite put off by the ugliness of the "actors" (white trash diner waitresses and tattooed ex-convict bikers) in it. Also, there's definitely a whole slew of shared fantasies - and of things we both consider hot and would like to see going on in porn.

Going beyond that, I don't really have a much of "stash" to speak of, as I've found that my imagination beats that of hentai authors by a mile and a furlough. My taste is and has always been way more innocent than hers though. She's rifled through anything I had on disk umpteenth times, and it's never caused problems. Getting all insecure over your boy's porn is like getting all insecure over your girl's vibrator: Hilariously stupid.

To my knowledge, she doesn't keep a "stash" either, as she prefers to reduce her own fantasies to drawing by herself. While I'd file most of it under mildly creepy, quite a bit of it I consider rather arousing.



So, there's not much to "watch" together, although she sometimes shows me her sketchbook, not least of all to get a kick out of my reaction. But, there's definitely fantasies we enjoy commonly; for Christmas, she gave me a set of coloured drawings of racy things she came up with herself, and I have been quite enjoying them. For the most part we prefer to share, or communicate, our fantasies verbally, and it works out just nicely.
Has it brought us closer? Yes it has. Both because it's an incredible show of mutual trust, and because it can be a wonderful experience to be turned on beyond belief by your lover's fantasies. Even if they're slightly "out there".

Why is it all in the past?
did you finally find one to share with?



None of my ex-girlfriends had any stash, both being very innocent and virgins, and none of them could handle porn. The first one I never thought of introducing porn to, and the second was very angry whenever the subject of "my stash" came up, so I ended up throwing it all away...
I never did tell any of them about hentai though.

Since I've never owned any type of porn since I was born in the computer age, the closest thing I would consider sharing is watching porn together on the net. Since our room is not very spacious the monitor is completely viewable from the end of the room. Sometimes she would wake up when during my late night fap sessions. Either she would go back to sleep or watch it with me depending on her mood. She doesn't get jealous over the hentai or porn I watch, because she trusts me.

No, not really. '.'

I'm just saying those times are over. I'm back to being on my own again.

Oh, okay. Not really sure if I am suppose to say sorry or congratulations, considering all the problems that usually accompanies the inevitable breakup.

Btw, considering most guys I know of, then even though they find hentai weird/strange, then I am quite sure they would like it if they heard that a girl was interested so I do not think you need to hide it from you future boyfriend.

I'm pretty sure none of them would appreciate it. XD Any future boyfriend will just have to. =P

never met a girl I'd be willing to throw it all away for
mind you no girl has ever expressed any positive interest in me

I also watch TONS of real porn and my boyfriend's not so into that. Most of our favorite hentai are aligned and we send each other links and trade hard drives, too.



TELL IT, GIRL.