Should I start dating again?

I have been single for a pretty long time now and been thinking this over for a while now, should I start dating again?

I'm definitely great with the opposite sex and know my way around them, however since I made a rule that I want a one shot girl, to find one, marry her, have kids, and die as a happy man. However, since I live in a society that doesn't provide such simple things, should I decide to go with the flow and just date random girls for fun?

I will tell you Fakku-ers the truth, I am kinda short, have a few pounds here and there, but still great to have in a life, however does all that count? I have been thinking about life and all it's wonderful content.

It is not that I am scared, it is just that I desire for one girl, the one true girl that is worth my effort, someone I wanna go over hell for, and if she is not it, then I just get up and leave ... but is my way of thinking correct as well.

What do you guys think, should I start dating again?

Please give me a few tips on what, how to think this through. I feel like my Yin and Yang are somehow battling each other and I wanna balance them out.

It's entirely up to you. Dating is the one sure-fire way to find your "ideal" girl, and since you feel that you're ready to get yourself back out there and want to find her, why not just go for it?

I don't know what you're like face to face, but you say you're good with women. If you do find her just make sure not to get her overly jealous.

youll never get to know a woman til you date her... being friends with one can only tell so much, you may be dating a woman for half a decade and you still dont know her enough. you'll never find the one that you truly want until you get in there.

if this makes you feel any better, i have seen guys who look like vomit and still they roll with a hot chick and makes me and some people wonder how the fuck did that happen. so yeah, anything is possible... its up to you to make it possible though eh

if you want to find the right girl, I suggest getting back into dating. You don't need to fall in love asap. If you take a girl out on a few dates and she's not right for you then, end it there. You don't have to be super serious in your dates. Feel around and go through one at a time and get to know them. And dont think of dating as serious relationships, think of it as the gateway to a serious relationship.

You should try to put yourself out there if you really wish to have a family. It might not happen with the first one but just keep trying for it.

You won't know whether or not a girl is worth putting her all into unless you know her a little bit either through friends or dating. How to tell that girl delicately that that is what your looking for is something I'm not sure.

Also, don't forget to not dwell on the physical part like kissing or sex. It may play a big part for you but your ideal should be able to relate and be with you if you take the physical away.

I'll be rooting for you.

Dollci, heres something for you... what you find this woman and shes just perfectly IT. But then you find out she cant make babies. How are you with that?

If you don't get out there then you probably won't find "the one". Dating is a good way to get to know somebody. Go on a few dates and learn about them, then decide whether or not to continue.

You don't have to go fishing alone blindly. If you really want a higher chance at finding the one without much strife, consider dating through connections you already have. You just might get lucky and find a very good woman quickly this way.

Surely you have friends, co-workers, family, or a community group that knows of another who just may be in the same boat as you are. You don't need to go clubbing or bar hoping as the only places for the chances are harder that way to find the ideal women you are searching for. Think out of the box and get help from those who respect you well.

They do exist out there. But like the others have said, let others be aware of you. I wish you good luck and remember to be patient with effort!

There are many ways to fix that ... that is why I love medical technology and science.

Casually approach the female friend who makes you laugh the most often. Start out simple and platonic -- it seems to be a consensus that lifetime partnerships are often born from close friendships. So instead of 'dating' or 'meeting girls', I suggest what Sigil said -- try seeing where things may go with a woman you already have a bond with.

Just aim yourself to give your everything for one girl, like you said.. It was up to you to choose, maybe you'll find someone very interesting and she was your type then go for it, or you could tighten the bond with one of your friend out there, maybe she's the one for you.

Well, Doll, I hope you find that someone. Me I'll admit, its nice to know that there are men who are ok with those who cannot make babies. If you exist, theres more of em out there right hahahaha

Like I said, I will try anything out.

If she wishes a baby but cannot make it, then i'll grant her wish with science and medical technology, if not then i'll gladly adopt a few kids for her pleasure as a mother.

I just want happiness between me and the right girl, and if I find her, i'll treat her as if she is someone I have been waiting for since the beginning of time.

Wow I hope thats is well for real, Im pretty sure you'll make a woman really Dollci, after all... thats really just what women want. Its more of a case of makign em believe coz... theres just so many assholes out there who make these same promised to them and just break their hopes and just treat them like fuck things.

I'm not the problem here trust me, it is the women who make the mistakes, which is one of the reasons I stopped dating a while ago.

Wow man with your recent posts, I can just feel you and I think greatly alike. I too wouldn't dismiss a girl just because she couldn't have children biologically.

I can't agree with dating a single parent because of the missing out feeling. Yet I can easily accept a woman who cannot birth a child, yet we both decide on a child to adopt and raise as ours. What matters to me the most is enjoying new memories together.

Stick true with your thoughts and desires, be positive with all kinds of people, and I strongly believe we will find our Queens we wish to cherish happily one day. We deserve it!

Definitely, we decide to push our selfish desires aside to make the ones we love happy, I believe that is what woman should go after, and not the monkeys.

Oh no, im not saying you are, its them trusting you that you would be good to them, but then again... I guess they cant help it either way.

Dollci, dont date young girls...... hahahahahahaaaaa date women ne?

Ok dollci, what ISSSSS you dream girl. Come on give us a clearer idea. Who knows if we know someone just like that and is looking for love

Someone around the same age. ( Obviously )
She likes to draw manga.
She supports me all the way, no matter what it is.'
She should always be open and fun to hang out with.
She should be my best friend, and also someone who I can trust.
Someone who always listens to me and understands me.
BEAUTIFUL!!!
SMART!!!
FUNNY!
She will always protect me.
Someone who likes to cuddle alot.
...
Basically I am looking for a girl who is just herself ,that likes to draw manga and gives effort in maintaining herself pretty. ( Just like all girls should )

That is someone I am looking for ... an angel.

I have never met a girl like that before, it'll be hard looking for a girl like that in a society where I live right now.

Well you know what I am looking for, do you think it's fair from me that I think like that?

I think you'll have better luck focusing on the immaterial items on that list, to be honest. D:

It.. makes discovering their quirks and cool hobbies a bonus.

I just think it makes finding 'The One' easier, when you know what you want that person to be like, versus what they look like/what they like to do. And ultimately, you fall for someone for who they are to you, anyways.