silly reasons to end friendships.

I guess this is somewhat of an ongoing odyssey with me and the people I call friends that continually disappoint me. So yesterday after a very awkward conversation (still asking myself if barbiturates were involved on the other side of this talk) A friend of a few years told me he would no longer be able to continue out friendship. His reasons for this were as follows

1. I occasionally borrow things from him.
2. I am not intimate personal friends with every single one of his intimate personal friends.

Being that I have known the man for years and these were issues only made light of recently and not discussed. (His issue with me borrowing things had never been voice until yesterday. The friend thing he mentioned once in the past month.) I'm not sure what I should take this decree as. I have had the assumption that once two people know each other for a year or more it was culturally acceptable to borrow a few items from them from time to time if they had no pre-discussed objection on the matter or items. And as far as the friend thing goes I know all my other friends have friends that I don't know and it's never been an issue. What's your take Fakku? I'm thoroughly confused here.

A friend stopped talking to me because he found out that I listen to Death Metal and that Im an Atheist.

He called me a "Devil Boy" or some shit, but Id have to be Christian to believe in that Devil. Just because Im Atheist doesnt mean I only believe in the Devil, I dont believe in either of them.... ~_~

Idiots these days... :roll:

that has absolutley nothing to do with your question but, if he stops being your friend because youre not really good friends with some of his other friends, then he's just being.... well I can think of the word but thats really stupid.

Friends are greatly overrated.

What? does that even make rational sense. Did he know you were an atheist before he called you that? But I guess alot of Christians seem to hate things like science and logical debate so guess to him it made perfect sense. ><

Relationships are overrated. Most times you're better off alone.

edit: ninja'd

Mine would be when me and a friend fought over a girl. Yeah I know it was stupid, but it happened.

Yeah I told him about it at the same time. He just asked me one day "What music do you listen to?"

"Oh I really like Death Metal, especially Nile."

"O_O Are you some devil worshiper?"

"No, Im Atheist, I dont believe in that...."

"Dude, youre fucking evil, get away from me."

That is the EXACT conversation.

:| seriously... wtf.

When did I mention relationships?



Wow I'm sorry man. Well at least you're among friends here.

I would have smacked the living Fuck outta that guy.

lol, about the borrowing thing.... I dont see why he would complain about that as long ass you return whatever you borrowed back in its original or better condition. Besides, he could borrow from you, throw that at him lol



It was in school so it would have turned into a whole "Oh look at this Atheist attacking a poor christian" scene. Yeah, dont ant to get that started.

He didnt deserve it.

Well actually yeah he did but yeah I was in school so meh :/

I never returned anything to him in worse condition than I got it.



Yeah no one want's dumb people praying for your soul on your front lawn.

Then he's making excuses or he doesnt use his brain.

I don't know what it is. Like the day before he was fine with me and then yesterday he wanted nothing to do with me. It's like I unknowingly mutated into some sort of giant crab monster or something equally as ridiculous.

Maybe he found out youre on a hentai site? XD

I only know of 1 person who wouldnt freak out if they found out I was on here.

Ive had people do that to me before, but over time it kind of fades away. Though he brought it up directly to you so I dont know. He's weird.

That is a stupid one. To end a friendship like that. Well, that is not a true friend if they are like that.

Well of course I wouldnt lend out my most prized stuff. It would be his fault for lending it to him. He doesnt have to let him borrow it.

lol I decline my friends from borrowing stuff all the time, maybe he should do the same.

One of my friendships ended once because I just didn't want to put up with that person's voice anymore, he was a swell guy but the tone of his voice drove me mad.

yeah the are but some times having 1 or 2 isn't so bad(feels less lonely)